TheMaggiejane1
Your first sentence more or less summed up the whole issue of retirement.
We are lucky in that we can manage to live without worrying about how to afford to eat or keep warm.
I retired at 63. I could have retired at 60 but for various reasons my husband was not able to work regularly due to health issues. I was hanging on to retire in May 2011 when he had a works pension coming in.
The year before I retired there were big changes at work and basically my self and a colleague both about 63 were being phased out by management.
At one point we knew the job was changing and as we always had done, applied ourselves for a course that was essential to a change of role.
The new manager virtually applied dirty tricks to us and told us he wasn't going to authorise us doing this. Essentially this could have been constructive dismissal.
In the middle of 2010 my husband health issues were diagnosed as a benign brain tumor and treated, but all the stress of that as well as the very sneaky way the new manager was dealing with us was dreadful.
I left work just before new year after as I had a hammer toe operation in early Jan so after all the 2 months sick leave for my foot, I went off sick as I really felt so stressed to just have to go up the office to sort out my belongings etc.
I arranged with the manager that "as they clearly wanted me out" (my actual words) would they mind me just taking just two months notice instead of three.
In my resignation letter and interview I gave them all the details about how badly we had been treated all very clear. That letter, the interview and the copy of this I sent to the very top women, gave me great satisfaction. I did get a apology about the way some of this had been dealt with.
The whole way my 23 yrs working there had ended was really miserable.
I got very down after all that but survived.
I enjoy retirement now. My time is filled with two little grandsons, two choirs some good friends who keep me laughing and my garden.
Our Welfare State. Is it broken?
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