As others have said, I simply would not put up with this nowadays and it isn't too late to leave. Many older people get divorced. My husband was very controlling too, and I didn't fully see it at the time. We were together 30 years. He decided he wanted someone younger and I was devastated. Do you know what ? It was the best thing that ever happened to me. I can have the heating on whenever I want, and also do all the other things I wasn't allowed to do - and I don't have to constantly pander to a selfish man or listen to his abuse, because that's what it is although you may not realise. Refusing to let you have heating and laughing at you is abuse.
Baby Reindeer - anyone watched it?
Alphabetical girls and boys names January 2024