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Asperger grandson not invited to party

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redf8235 Tue 13-Sept-16 19:49:59

Thanks we will do something special on that day.
It won't be the last time he gets pushed out, some hard lessons for us all to learn.

Maggiemaybe Tue 13-Sept-16 19:48:07

Too many this times there...must remember to preview before posting.

Maggiemaybe Tue 13-Sept-16 19:47:21

Oh no, poor him, poor you. But I have to agree, it's probably best that you don't wade in (though I would be biting my tongue so hard....angry). Perhaps she genuinely has had to limit numbers this time, and there are other children who haven't made the cut this time. Let's hope so.

BlueBelle Tue 13-Sept-16 19:33:26

Gosh how wicked what an awful woman as the others have said you can't really say anything, poor little chap has he got another friend ? you or his mum could take them out for a treat on that day instead

Greyduster Tue 13-Sept-16 19:29:47

I'm not surprised you are angry, but I'm afraid you don't have any choice but to respect your daughter's wishes. I am very sad for your grandson and for you and your daughter. Perhaps give him a special treat on the day of the party to take the edge off his disappointment? We all feel our little ones' pain - they are cut, we bleed!

Anniebach Tue 13-Sept-16 19:08:36

How difficult, I think you should respect your daughters wishes

redf8235 Tue 13-Sept-16 19:05:18

My 7year old grandson has been friends with another boy for about 3years they have always gone to each others birthday parties. This year the mother of the other little boy has said to my daughter that Sam my grandson wasn't invited because he wouldn't enjoy party and she had to limit numbers.Sam has aspergers he is verbal and bright, he will be hurt by non invitation.I'm very angry with the mum and badly want to say something but my daughter doesn't want me to.it I can't get this unkind behaviour out of my mind , should I keep quiet ?