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Zengran Tue 01-Nov-16 15:04:33

We live on an over 55s complex and have relatively new neighbours (3 months). The thing is, their bedroom is next to our lounge and I can hear everything when they are having sex. They go to bed much earlier than us. We live in a very small bungalow and there is no other room where I can't hear it.I find it embarrassing that I am privy to such personal sounds but don't know what to do about it. Turning the telly up doesn't really mask it!!

Luckylegs9 Wed 02-Nov-16 16:40:37

I would say, well done and clap.

gillybob Wed 02-Nov-16 16:11:00

How about playing "Push It" by Salt-n-Peppa really loud through the wall at the first moan whenever they start?

Aaaaah push it
Aaaaah push it

Ooooh baby baby
baby baby
Ooooh baby baby

You know the one...
www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4onJ7Z2MLI

LyndaW Wed 02-Nov-16 15:26:05

I don't really have much to add except that this is quite possibly my favourite GN thread ever!

gillybob Wed 02-Nov-16 15:11:24

I think BBevans idea is by far the best. A very loud, round of applause complete with whistles and cheering every time they finish! They will soon get the message.

It could be all put on of course??

do people really need to make that kind of noise when they do it?

glenda Wed 02-Nov-16 15:04:59

This thread hasn't half made my day grin

rosiemus Wed 02-Nov-16 14:56:36

Many years ago our upstairs neighbours went through a phase of noisy sex. One session didn't last very long. My partner shouted "Is that it?" and we never heard them again

sluttygran Wed 02-Nov-16 14:33:22

I love the thought of playing 'The Galloping Major' - that should stop anyone in their tracks.
The William Tell overture is also very good music for dampening the ardour - no-one could possibly keep up with the rhythm - they'd burst into flames! Don't ask me how I know grin

Legs55 Wed 02-Nov-16 14:31:23

I live in a Park home, noise isn't so much a problem if you're indoors with tv/radio on but if you're outside you can hear loud neighbours - fortunately mine are fairly quiet thlgrin

I'm envious of your neighbours Zengran as I've been widowed for over 3 years thlenvy but I do agree perhaps just turn tv up or when you see her I would be tempted to mention "thin walls", they may not realise how much you can hear thlhmm

Bez1989 Wed 02-Nov-16 14:08:04

On holiday in Mallorca one December I had a single room. Obviously a double room with a thin plasterboard wall ! Chap next door brought a woman back for sex....
I could hear lots of sounds from him followed by snoring. I thought she didn't seem to get much from it !!
I left a note on his door and the next night heard her read it out loud with much drunken giggling.
I was always looking round the dining room trying to pick out who I thought it was.
grinwinegrin

gettingonabit Wed 02-Nov-16 14:04:25

I've led a sheltered life, obviouslygrin.

I think I'd tell them. Either 1) they'll be mortified I certainly would or 2) they won't stop in which case you may ne able to get a noise abatement order only half joking.

Seriously though, if it were any other kind of loud, unwelcome noise it wouldn't be a laughing matter.

Janet14 Wed 02-Nov-16 14:03:32

Why not ask if you can join in?

Jalima Wed 02-Nov-16 13:46:59

sounds indicating love and happiness have quite a wide scope!

Gardenman99 Wed 02-Nov-16 13:29:16

`We had neighbours both school teachers, who were into sub and Dom relationship he would whip her. We could overhear their sessions. Whilst I was at work my wife told the lady we could hear them and it sounded painful. She assured my wife it was a wonderful marriage they had and she suggested my wife join them.

adaunas Wed 02-Nov-16 13:28:03

Go with the peaceful methods, though I love Ninathe nana and Eleggrans suggestion and would probably try them.

Stella14 Wed 02-Nov-16 13:25:13

Good for them! ?? I wish we were up to it 2 or 3 times a week these days! There are many sounds I don't like to hear, but sounds indicating love and happiness are not amongst them. I'm sorry, but I don't believe that turning up your TV isn't enough. If that were the case, they would have to be having 'swinging from the light fittings' sex and given their ages, I seriously doubt that's the case. Lighten-up for heaven sake!

JackyB Wed 02-Nov-16 13:09:08

I like the idea of a fanfare - like the ones they play when a Ryanair flight lands on time.

hulahoop Wed 02-Nov-16 12:51:55

Clapping sounds good

nokkie Wed 02-Nov-16 12:39:12

I like the idea of clapping!!!

Louizalass Wed 02-Nov-16 12:37:21

I like the idea of clapping, as well! Sound slike (no pun intended) they are something of exhibitionists?! They surely must realise the thinness of the walls as they must hear noise from your side as well! (I mean the tele or radio, not anything untoward! wink

Marion58 Wed 02-Nov-16 12:30:11

I wonder if their relationship is new, that extreme pleasure usually goes out of the window after a time - when boredom sets in!

Gemmag Wed 02-Nov-16 12:10:05

Over 55 and up to 90+years old!. Just curious, how old is this lucky woman?.
Best way to keep fit I say.
Maybe you're just a bit envious Zengram??.

Eloethan Wed 02-Nov-16 11:57:11

radicalnan smile

Nelliemoser Wed 02-Nov-16 11:50:34

Oh Fortuna would work very well. grin

www.youtube.com/watch?v=GXFSK0ogeg4

Nelliemoser Wed 02-Nov-16 11:45:23

Yes play some suitably loud music at them through the wall then a loud fanfare of some sort, followed by a screaming baby. They might then get the message. grin

radicalnan Wed 02-Nov-16 11:03:14

Nobody likes a show off !!

Lucky buggers