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Being called granny

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Suemag Sat 28-Jan-17 13:45:08

I have grandchildren who all call me granny which I love as my mother and grandmother were also called granny, but on 3 separate occasions last year people I didn't know said when the grandson was calling me how they would hate to be called granny as it would make them feel old etc, I just said I loved it and left it at that but I do think it was incredibly rude and wondered if anyone else had encountered the same problem and knew of an answer.

mags1234 Sun 29-Jan-17 13:09:28

I'm proud to be called granny!

Emelle19 Sun 29-Jan-17 13:14:12

I'm called Granny - at my request - and I wouldn't be called anything else.
I love it! smile

Sheilasue Sun 29-Jan-17 13:25:10

I have a 16 year old gd, who calls me nan or nana, I quite like that and nan is a ladies name anyway

Swanny Sun 29-Jan-17 13:31:56

A group of neighbours was talking about this same subject and one of them chipped in with 'I don't care what they call me as long as it's not late for my dinner!' grin

Sorry - maybe I should have put that on the thread about Mum's sayings!

kathryn489 Sun 29-Jan-17 13:36:19

I am 39 and love my little grandson calling me granny (or gan-gan as it is at the moment) everyone always tells me oh that's such an old name why does he call you that - same as you my precious granny no longer with us was a role model and I'm proud to have her granny tilte - hope I become as good as her one day in grannyness ??

Ellie13 Sun 29-Jan-17 13:47:04

Im granny or rather gaggy at the moment ? I love it, I'm 50 and couldn't care less if other people think it sounds old, it's what my gorgeous gd wants to call me and that's all that matters.

Legs55 Sun 29-Jan-17 14:04:04

I am Nanny, not by choice but when my 1st SGS was born 22 years ago DSD asked me what I wanted to be called, I told her it was her choice, DH was Gramps by choice, I accepted Nanny Lynne as DSD's DM was Nanny Anne. So it stuck.hmm

When my DGS was born I was told by DD that I would be Nanny (although as a grown up 6 year old!!! he wants to call me Nangrin. My DM is Granny. But what's in a name if used with lovesmile

I also hated Nanny as I always think of a goathmm but now I don't mind, I'm often Nanny Grapes as that's DGS's treat when I see him !posh ones from M & S as my DD always saysgrin

Elrel Sun 29-Jan-17 14:11:44

Looking at the teenage GC I remember being Franny to one, Ganny to his brother when they were very small. Time passes so quickly and those moments with them are now such precious memories.
Oldest GD told me she referred to me as 'other Nan' when with her mother's family. Now I'm her only Nan and sad for her.

Pigglywiggly Sun 29-Jan-17 14:17:03

I am Granny and I chose it. My own children had Nanny and Grandma and I decided to be Granny for ease of identification. It doesn't sound any older than. Grandma, does it?

Skweek1 Sun 29-Jan-17 14:40:33

Entirely up to you and your GC - my Aberdonian family have always used Granny/Grannie, but my Lancastrian husband's grandparents were Grandpa/Grandma and our DS called them Grandpumpa and Grandmama to distinguish between them and Grandma. Ignore stupid people!

Sylviann60 Sun 29-Jan-17 15:01:53

I am also a grain and wouldn't like to be called nana or nanny some of my friends say grandson makes me sound old well I am at 70 I'm no spring chicken it's my choice to be called granddaughter so if someone doesn't like it it's not my problem

Bijou Sun 29-Jan-17 15:17:53

I was Grandma at the age of 44. Nanny is a female goat.

BBbevan Sun 29-Jan-17 15:31:31

Exactly Bijou or paid help ?

pollyperkins Sun 29-Jan-17 16:26:26

Wel I think we all have our own associations. When my first GC was born I was asked what I wanted to be called and opted for Grandma as thAts what I called my own grandmothers and what my c called my mother . I love being grandma! DH on the other hand thought Grandpa sounded old and posh/pompous ( why?) and opted for Grandad - which sounds older to me! Luckily the other grandmother wanted to be Nanny which is the tradition in their famiky and ive never been all that keen on it so thats ok for us All. Whatever you Are happy with is ok!

Lyndie Sun 29-Jan-17 16:42:50

My first grandchild couldn't say grandma but RaRa. So all my six grandchildren call me RaRa now.

Crazygrandma2 Sun 29-Jan-17 16:58:15

I'm grandma and proud to be so. I think that it's a personal thing. Our kids called my mom Grandma and my DH mum wanted to be nana - not a name I personally like.

Peaseblossom Sun 29-Jan-17 17:32:40

I don't like granny, gran or grandma as I do think it sounds old. Makes me think of an old lady with silver hair in a bun with glasses, in a rocking chair. Well that is MY opinion before any snaps at me! grin Sorry if it offends anyone. I'm nanny then my first name as is the other grandparent. I called my mum's mum nanny and my children called my mother and husband's mother nanny. If children think nanny sounds a bit babyish when they're older they can always call her nan instead.

Hollycat Sun 29-Jan-17 17:35:56

My mother was Grandma but the youngest couldn't sat it and called her Amagnyar which sounds much more difficult and people thought she was foreign! "Granny" sounds just right.

harrigran Sun 29-Jan-17 18:14:14

Nanny is a lady goat or a paid childminder, Nana was the Darling's dog in Peter Pan.

Bellanonna Sun 29-Jan-17 18:36:52

Yes agree about Nanny, but in the end does it really matter? We all have our preferences. I don't like Nanny but for goodness sake it doesn't have to equate with a childminder or a goat. Each to her own, and whatever she likes to be called. Lucky her that she has someone to call her something. I had given up by the age of 72 then 3 proverbial buses arrived, one after the other.

shirleyhick Sun 29-Jan-17 18:48:35

When my son and daughter in law had my granddaughter they asked me what I would like to be called I said nan or nanny as that is what we called our grandparents as someone else mentioned I think it is a region thing. y daughter in law parents are from Malaysia and they are called something completely different. So take no notice what people say they obviously have nothing better to do with their time.

yellowcanary Sun 29-Jan-17 19:13:11

I only have step-grandchildren - when the oldest one was born I was only in my early 30's but I became Nanna because I said it would confuse her (then the others) to call my husband Grampa and me by my name so I am Nanna (name)

My own grandparents were Gran and Gramps, my dad Grampy to my two nephews

Icyalittle Sun 29-Jan-17 19:46:31

I was going to be Granny, and would have been very happy with that, but my firstborn DGC called me Yaya and that's who I am. I love it. If anyone queries what you are called, get back at them with a similar comment about their first name - "oh, that's interesting, I've always thought Athena / Bertha / Codswallop was a really old-sounding name. Don't you hate it?" Apologies to any real life Athena's etc, just picking ones out of the air!

Thebeeb Sun 29-Jan-17 20:46:49

Personally I don't like Gramdma/Grannie so am called Nannie (name) and other Nannie is Nannie her name. Works for us that's all that matters.

Elrel Sun 29-Jan-17 22:54:57

Those who go on about nanny being a goat presumably are also scathing of the use of mummy which, of course, has a meaning other than mother.
Why keep on these efforts to make people whose GC call them Nanny feel wrong or inferior? It's just snobbery isn't it?