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How do I start to make friends

(58 Posts)
frue Wed 30-Aug-17 11:18:40

It is hard later in life. Suggest you do things you want to do - U3A, classes, volunteering and Hope to make friends as a result. I joined U3A and love the group but have not made a friend that way but volunteering you're doing something and get to know people at the same time
Good Luck - it is hard as other people seem to be so "busy"

Jennieantliff Wed 30-Aug-17 11:17:49

The WI is a great way to make new friends.

Humbertbear Wed 30-Aug-17 11:17:10

I joined an art class and made two good friends. My sister has a busy social life based on her gym. I think it's important to join groups according to your own interests and U3A has loads of interest groups.

Lindylo Wed 30-Aug-17 10:40:08

Do you have a WI or Townswomen's Guild in your area? Both groups are a very friendly bunch and welcoming.

Oriel Wed 30-Aug-17 10:30:08

I agree with the others - adult learning is the way to go. You might not make friends there but it will get you out and you'll have the opportunity to meet people with a common interest.

Friendships may follow but it's probably not the best thing to sign up for a course solely for friendship as you may come across as too needy. Sign up for something you're interested in and enjoy it for its own sake.

grannylyn65 Wed 30-Aug-17 10:14:40

Join U3 a, its marvellous!! Something for everyone And the groups are just starting up.!

GrandmaMoira Wed 30-Aug-17 10:11:47

Try joining something like adult education classes, where you will have a shared interest to discuss, or the WI or a pensioners' club or volunteer. Even if you don't make close friends, you will have someone to talk to.

eileen66 Wed 30-Aug-17 09:46:16

I'm 67 and looking for friends in my area . I'm not confident find it hard some days to even go to the local shop ,,,