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gmelon Thu 21-Dec-17 16:02:14

When oh when did the word "you" get replaced with "yourself" ?
Also the waiters and waitresses that ask " what can I get for yourselves today".
Did the younger folks change the use of English language while I had my back turned?

funwithgrandma Fri 22-Dec-17 10:15:21

It's the first time I've posted (I tried once before but couldn't get it to work). I agree with all the above and especially with acanthus about So...grrr. Has anyone else noticed disappearing t's in the middle or end of a word? In reply to "can I get a coffee?" I'd be strongly tempted to say yes help yourself smile

grandtanteJE65 Fri 22-Dec-17 10:15:05

It's a fun thing to do!

We need a society to save the adjective, as well as one to save the adverb!

W11girl Fri 22-Dec-17 10:13:14

My pet hate are those car stickers "Princess on Board"....it came out of the serious sticker "child on Board" which was to alert emergency services in case of an accident, as small babies/young children usually end up in the well of the car! Most of the time there is nobody in the car apart from the driver...how stupid can people be!

Grannyanna12345 Fri 22-Dec-17 10:11:56

MischEEEEvEEEEEous. Aaarrrgh!

GrannyParker Fri 22-Dec-17 10:04:31

Being told I am someone’s ‘lovely’, I smile through gritted teeth, the person doesn’t mean any harm, but as I get older it feels quite patronising.

acanthus Fri 22-Dec-17 10:02:42

Current irritations (although there are many..): People being interviewed on TV who begin their explanation of something with "So..." and the phrase widely used nowadays:
"D'you know what....."

Madwife1 Fri 22-Dec-17 09:33:56

Bluebelle I once cared for a labouring woman who's DH dared to say We decided we don't want pain relief, even though the poor woman was screaming out for it. Made my blood boil

Mamissimo Thu 21-Dec-17 23:30:52

Me "would you like a drink?" SiL, "Can I get a coffee?" Always makes me feel like I'm Starbucks!

Chewbacca Thu 21-Dec-17 19:19:43

Iya, yar right? Instead of "Hello, are you alright?". If my hairdresser says this Just. One. More. Time.......

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:15:11

Sorry for ranting haha blush

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:14:35

Yes harrigran!!! Spot on . My DSIL says it to my DGS who's 6. Can't bear it.

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:13:01

I was shopping not an hour ago and heard " come on baby girl " to a toddler. Didn't she have a name then ? angry

harrigran Thu 21-Dec-17 19:10:30

Come on mate, father to 6 year old. He is not your mate he is your child.

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:10:16

I hate the car signs saying it though . Stupid.

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:09:27

All little girls are princesses I don't know about princes.

NotTooOld Thu 21-Dec-17 19:07:54

Myself hates 'my little princess'. There's even a shop not too far from here selling clothes for 'Little Princes and Princesses'. Yuk.

Iam64 Thu 21-Dec-17 19:04:29

I don't mind "hey you guys...." - In that respect, I never quite left 1967 so I'm easy with it.
as for 'yourself' - I worked in a firm where all the directors were Irish and everyone was referred to as 'yourself', eg 'I've got the kettle on, what will it be for yourself". Loved it.

I live in the north west where "going t'town" etc is common place. I don't say it, my mother would have shot me but I hear it all the time.

Mind you - I get wound up when I hear newsreaders/interviewees talking about how they "crated" something. ie how they created something.

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:02:00

Oh me myself does too Jalimalgrin

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 19:00:57

What do you Fink? ?hate that one

Jalima1108 Thu 21-Dec-17 19:00:46

I like that song!

NannyTee Thu 21-Dec-17 18:59:35

That's put me in mind of a Joan Armatrading song " Me Myself I " haha

Jalima1108 Thu 21-Dec-17 18:55:34

'Come on you guys' - when it's a five year old DGD I don't mind at all!

Chewbacca Thu 21-Dec-17 18:34:57

Yourself, instead of you. Myself, instead of me. Both irritate the hell out of me. Always youngsters who use it too. Why?

winterwhite Thu 21-Dec-17 18:32:49

* vampirequeen* 'guys' irritates me too. What did we say before? Has it replaced 'folks', which always sounds a bit self-conscious.

BBbevan Thu 21-Dec-17 17:30:03

Nonnie I am willing to give it a try. Just for the pleasure of doing so. ?