You can’t. Unless they bring up the subject first however you try to raise the matter you are bound to upset them. No one likes to be criticised and that’s basically what you will be doing. You don’t like the way they are living their life. You don’t like the food they are eating. You don’t like the fact they have put on weight.
Is there an underlying problem or is it simply ignorance (a young person fending for themselves for the first time)? Tackle either those aspects and you’re half way there. But remember the person won’t thank you for your kindly meant advice unless they asked for your help first.
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?