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Lyndylou Fri 02-Feb-18 21:02:36

I didn't do anything special, I don't really like parties. I was 66 last week, its my daughter's birthday next week so I think we will have a family dinner to celebrate both.

Talking of retirement though, I lost my job today (Carillion related), I was hoping to work until the summer so I could officially say I had worked for 50 years. sad

lemongrove Fri 02-Feb-18 20:13:33

Damn! I didn’t do anything special for 65, I should have had a party.
Golden wedding in two years though, so will hopefully have a big party then ( if still here.?)

Maggiemaybe Fri 02-Feb-18 20:07:56

DH and I share a birthday week and he’s 5 years older, so we have joint special ocelebrations. Our last was 60/65, our next big one will be 65/70. The fizz comes out every year. wink

BlueBelle Fri 02-Feb-18 19:07:33

Had a family do at 60 with two out of three children and four grandkids, other son and family too far away, nothing at 65 or 70 or retirement (at 68) think I might do a little meal for 75
( I had my mum and dad till I was 68)

annodomini Fri 02-Feb-18 18:27:12

Big 'do' for 70th, organised by DSs, DDiLs and senior GD. Old friends from Uni and my time in Kenya came as did rarely seen relatives and in-laws. I don't expect anything so special at 80. In fact, I think that landmark will be better forgotten.

Bridgeit Fri 02-Feb-18 18:23:39

Definitely it kind of represents official retirement even if you don’t retire, any excuse for a nice indulgent day/night, have a memorable time?

mcem Fri 02-Feb-18 18:20:08

Family meal at 60. 65 don't remember. 70 next month and have opted for no party but take 2 wee ones to disneyland Paris!
2 close friends having big parties for 70.
We also have an 18, a 21, a 30, a 40 and an 80 plus a wedding so will be all partied out without adding another!!

Telly Fri 02-Feb-18 17:51:10

kathsue - I have retired, so I guess that's my hesitancy! Consensus at the moment seems to be go for it.......

Telly Fri 02-Feb-18 17:49:58

Varian - lucky you to have your mum still with you at 65! My mother had children later in life (for the time anyway) so it has been quite a few years since she died. I do miss her too.

kathsue Fri 02-Feb-18 17:35:30

If you like parties then I'd say go for it! Have a party at 65 and another one to celebrate your retirement.
You don't know how many Birthdays you've got left so make the most of them.
That's my philosophy anyway.

varian Fri 02-Feb-18 17:19:13

I can't remember doing anything special when I was sixty-five. Too busy working at full tilt.

I do remember my seventieth birthday although I was still working I think that was when I began to slow down.

We were expecting our children and grandchildren to arrive for a special meal but it was even more special when my Mum turned up unexpectedly. I do miss her now she's gone.

mollie Fri 02-Feb-18 17:14:13

I’m not a party person but I think that any birthday after 59 deserves a little bit of fuss made of it so yes, I’ll break out the fizz when I hit 65.

Telly Fri 02-Feb-18 17:07:07

Obviously this used to mark retirement but now it can be almost any number and the official retirement age is moving to 68. What about people reaching 65 now - is this a 'special' birthday, assuming they have already retired that is? What do you think? Would you mark it or just let it slip by?