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Feeling unloved and poorly

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over60plus Sat 03-Mar-18 19:46:10

No he has always been the same tried to say how I was feeling he said I am fed up nobody goes to bed for 2 weeks with flu, I said a lot of people have died with this flu
He just does not answer

sodapop Sat 03-Mar-18 19:35:44

That is unforgivable over60 Is he normally so uncaring ?

Some people of course cannot cope when their nearest and dearest is ill and just try to ignore it. You really need to sit down with him and explain how you feel and what help you need. Can you organise some help in the house until you feel better.

silverlining48 Sat 03-Mar-18 19:35:29

Sorry to hear that over60. Hope you start to feel better soon. It can take a lot longer than you expect, so take care.

over60plus Sat 03-Mar-18 19:27:39

Well went to Spain on 18th Feb for a weeks sun started to feel unwell on arrival sick, coughing could not get out of bed, when we arrived home I insisted my husband took me to hospitals was admitted with severe chest infection and this dam FLU I have never felt so unwell, they kept me for 4 days sent home under GP care and my husband, went to bed did not get up for 3 days not once did he say how are you feeling do you want a drink etc, got up and dressed today still feel really weak what does he say all the holiday ironing needs doing, Do you realise how poorly I have felt his answer I have not had a proper cooked meal for over a week I give up