Weddings always upset someone , however it’s all about what the couple want. My Mum tried to make an issue when my 1st DS married, complaining that cousins were not invited. Gone are the days when Uncle Tom Cobbly and all are invited ! I pointed out that they had not seen the cousins for over 5 years, and as the guests were costing god knows what per head, those cousins also had partners and 3 kids each ! I asked Mum if she wanted to pay for them and she went quiet !! Next wedding, she never mentioned a thing and just accepted DD’s wishes. Most level headed people accept these days that couples want quality not quantity on their special day.