I too have a 4 year old grandson who has just been diagnosed due to his parents being very concerned about the traits he was showing. I posted on here a couple of weeks ago about it and got such positive responses which I passed on to my son (they are in NZ) - he was extremely grateful for the information and the knowledge that these children go on to lead productive and positive lives.
I hope your daughter gets the help she asks for - an early diagnosis is helpful for all concerned. I hope your husband's recovery continues quickly - keep posing on here as it does help to share.
34 year old assisted euthanasia