I was never much of a child for drawing & painting although I loved the "Magic Painting" books. As a teenager I hated sewing, never learnt to knit but in my late teens onwards I started to make my own clothes. DD was hopeless, even at College I had to make one of her projects as she was totally out of her depth, as an Adult she is now very creative.
DGS1 has balance problems (mild Dyspraxia), he swims very well, has just learnt to ride a bike. The key is in the way he's taught to do things, he loves reading & playing with figures, wonderful imagination.
I wouldn't worry too much if a 4 year old doesn't want to do drawing etc, the more you push, the more likely that she will dig her heels in & not do it. Don't put her off activities for life, try & find out what she likes doing. She sounds very determined, I was very like her as a child, she will find her own level & School will soon inform her Parents if there are concerns.