For those saying “just say no”, it is not that simple depending on your upbringing and personality. I was brought up to say yes to all requests and was so afraid of the consequences of saying no that it has become the habit of a lifetime. Dealing with guilt tripping, sulking and bad temper after saying no makes it easier to say yes. But it is possible to change ..... I asked someone I had helped a great deal for years, for a favour when my parent was terminally ill (the first time I had asked and I was desperate). When my request was refused (would have taken an hour and a half at a critical time) I suddenly found myself able to say no. Now I ask myself, would they help me in return? So I only help in real emergencies or if it is something I would enjoy doing. Ie boring things like staying in all day for deliveries, cleaning, shopping. Get items delivered in the evening, pay a cleaner, or keep it clean yourselves, shop online. Emergencies always excepted. I am actually more appreciated and wish I had realised sooner.