Gransnet forums

Ask a gran

Grandchildren 'Sleeping Over'

(64 Posts)
Iam64 Tue 11-Jun-19 08:42:19

It will be fine, you will all love the sleep over and you will all be tired the following day. At least, that's our experience. One of ours always wakes about midnight and crawls into bed with me. I've tried and failed to get him back in his own bed and he's had a lot of change in recent months so I accept he will wake and crawl back into my bed.
Keep to the routine the children have at home. For us, it's off with the tv/screens, bath, milky drink, bed time story and tucked in to sleep.
Have fun

sodapop Tue 11-Jun-19 08:35:43

Don't over think this Lyndiloo they will have fun and probably won't settle easily but enjoy time with them. Stories and cuddles for all of you to enjoy.
Baby listener and waterproof mattress cover are both good ideas. Have a good time and relax with them.

3dognight Tue 11-Jun-19 08:29:42

Don't worry all will be fine.
They will probably be abit hyper, and not settle very early.
Yes, there will be a couple of sleepy faces looking at you as soon as you wake up, or pretend to wake up, as you have been awake most of the night listening out for them falling down stairs, lol. You will be exhausted when they have gone, but you all will have had a lovely time I'm sure.

Mine are all teenagers now, so much simpler when they were little.

harrigran Tue 11-Jun-19 08:11:13

Night lights, ours did not like total darkness.
I kept cot side on the bed because one of mine was a restless sleeper, didn't want her rolling out near the radiator.
I use to stand the potty on a towelling bath mat, saved the carpet a few times.
Don't expect them to nod off early whilst sharing a room, mine had a room each with their own CD player as they liked different talking books and music.

NanKate Tue 11-Jun-19 06:54:58

Do you have a CD player as our boys always wanted music to go to sleep to ? Brush up your own singing skills, our 6 year old still asks for a lullaby.

Sara65 Tue 11-Jun-19 06:54:39

Good point Jangran!!

Sara65 Tue 11-Jun-19 06:53:42

As someone said, they’ll be excited, so expect a later night than usual for them, they are all different, my five year old grandson, goes to bed when you tell him, and straight to sleep, nine year old girl cousins are much more challenging, and that usually calls for a strict talking to at about midnight! The older ones are still up when I go to bed, and the littlest one just carries on in her normal routine

I do leave the landing light on, but that’s it really, just go with the flow, and don’t get too stressed if they won’t settle down. But if you’re going to do it regularly, you’ll need them to get into a routine

Good luck, and enjoy

Jangran99 Tue 11-Jun-19 06:48:18

Make sure they bring their own cuddly toy for sleeping. I also knitted mine each a new soft toy that lived at Gran's house and kept their beds warm.

janeainsworth Tue 11-Jun-19 06:30:06

Waterproof mattress protector?
Enjoy your time with them, I’m sure the children willsmile

kittylester Tue 11-Jun-19 06:23:27

Baby listeners are the way forward! If it is going to be a regular occurrence you could consider buying a blow up child bed (or two) to prevent potential trouble using a double bed. A potty in the bedroom might be a good idea.

We do this quite often - it is exhausting but fun. Your Dd and sil will be very grateful and we have found our dgc feel more at home having stayed.

BlueBelle Tue 11-Jun-19 06:07:02

Oh enjoy it don’t look for problems they will be fine I always leave the landing light on when the grandkids sleep over even now when they are grown up ?
Be prepared for some playing and giggling they won’t just settle and go to sleep like in a story book it’s a novelty and exciting and they ll be a bit hyper and you ll have a very early morning start
enjoy it they are grown up in the blink of an eye

Liz46 Tue 11-Jun-19 05:32:55

Show them where you will be sleeping and tell them that you will leave your door open. Relax and enjoy!

absent Tue 11-Jun-19 05:29:38

Stair gate and nightlight are both good ideas. Remind them where to find the toilet and accept that someone might not get to it in time, given the unfamiliar night surroundings. The children will probably be very excited as this will be a wonderful adventure for them. Be prepared for an invasion early in the morning.

Enjoy!

Lyndiloo Tue 11-Jun-19 02:52:41

My two grandchildren are going to sleep at our house for the very first time. We are very close, as they live nearby and we have always done a lot of childcare. Granddaughter is 5 and Grandson is nearly 3.

Both parents work full-time, and this arose because my daughter is getting very stressed lately. Our grandson is adopted and has been with us since November 2018. He is settling in nicely, and is such a good little boy, but I think my daughter is finding it really hard, having a busy job, and now the added pressure of another child. (It's what they both wanted, of course, and they are very grateful, but I think the extra work is just getting to her at the moment.) And neither child sleeps through the night every night. So for some nights throughout the week they have one or another child climbing into bed with them! smile

They asked if we could babysit one night a month (on 'payday') so that she and hubby could have a 'date-night' - just to get out of the house and spend some time alone, together. (We already do babysit now and then, when they go out with friends.)

It was my suggestion that they should being the kids to us for a 'sleepover', so that when they got home, they could have a good night's sleep - and wake-up whenever.

The grandchildren will have to sleep together in a double-bed (something they've never done before). I've thought of a stairgate and a dim light on the landing - so if one of them does get up, they will see where they are. I will leave their bedroom door and ours ajar. (Shut the cat in the kitchen, so that he won't be jumping on beds.)

Any other tips? (Feeling a bit apprehensive now.)