GS My MiL was utterly unpossesive. If DH had decided to emigrate to Australia at 16, she would have packed his bag, seen him off at the airport with a smile and a wave and then gone home and wept in private.
As a result DH was close to both his parents. I loved my MiL from Day 1 and she completely accepted me from the start
(if she didn't, she hid it very well). I think the reason we have such a happy relationship with DS is because we are equally unpossesive.
I do think that there seems to be this strange belief that MiL's are a uniform set, arising out of nowhere when a man gets married. In fact they are individuals, with immensely varying backgrounds and life experiences - as are DiL and the relationship between the two is as individual as any relationship between two random people. I cannot not see how other people's relationships with their MiL can shed any light on any other unless MiL and DiL have exactly the same background, life experiences and their spouses are also the same - and how often does that happen?
being a right moany pain in the proverbial
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.