Please can someone help me.
There are 6 of us growup adults myself aged 63 years, my sister who is 15 months younger, and 4 brothers all younger
Our father is 84 we,lost our mum 33 years ago. Is now in hospital and has been for 6 weeks, he originally went in for a Chronic kidney injury and now has had 13 strokes, 3 of which are In the brain stem
My sister is a nurse and she speaks to me in a very factual way, and I feel I cant do anything right, know fact this has gone on all our lives.
She has always been very close to our dad and my brothers, as I left home at 19 travelling with my then soldier husband and she was then the big sister and helped them with our mums problems, as she was alcoholic.
Now our father is ill I feel so bloody useless and everything I do or say is wrong.
I feel like a little girl around her and am on edge with her and her husband. Who I had a fall out with in Nov last year.
I know this this is stressful for all of us, as it has been 6 weeks now and not su
re how long it is going to go on for
I feel so bloody useless in front of her and cry everytime I leave the hospital
How do we tackle someone who is always in charge and gives no room for any empathy towards me ?
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