Hi 2Nans. Unfortunately Iv been through the same thing with my 2 Grandchildren & Grandparents have no rights. I belong to a Grandparent s Support Group & know Grandparents who have been to court which cost them 15k upwards & even though the court agreed the Grandparents should be allowed to see their Grandchildren if the parents make excuses when you go to
Pick them up there’s absolutely nothing you can do. The police are not allowed to get involved, in fact I know Grandparents who have been arrested for harassment even though the court went in their favour. It’s terrible. Find your nearest Grandparents Support Group & sign the petition so us Grandparents can get enough signatures to be able to change the law. Iv been through hell. Luckily I’m allowed to see my Grandaughters ( until my controlling SIL changes his mind ) which he has done many many times. Xx
Grandparents Lobby Event
Grandparents Lobby Event
Thursday, 5 September, 2019
Matthew has been pressing the Government for a change to the Children’s Act 1989 to give the child a right in law to have a relationship with their grandparents and other members of their extended family. addressing an issue that is dividing families across the country and the Hendon constituency – that of grandparents being denied access to their grandchildren.
Matthew hosted a lobby event in Parliament this week, organised by the Hendon Grandparents Support Group, which was attended by grandparents from across the country, family lawyers and campaigner Dame Esther Rantzen. Matthew told the meeting that the importance of grandparents in the lives of children cannot be overstated with research suggesting that the quality of attachment between grandchildren and grandparents contributes to the child’s well-being and sense of worth and provides a special love and nurturing which is healthy for children.
Estrangement can occur as a result of separation of parents, death, family disagreements, or sometimes a mere word out of place. For grandparents and the grandchildren from whom they become separated, it can be very distressing with grandchildren often not understanding the reasons for the estrangement.
Currently, when access to grandchildren breaks down, grandparents’ only real recourse is through the courts. Many, understandably, do not want to put their grandchildren through such a process nor create further tensions within the family which are only likely to worsen the situation. It can also be a lengthy and expensive course of action – often costing thousands of pounds – and many grandparents are not in a position to afford such costs.
Matthew has raised the issue with the Department of Justice and is seeking a change in the law so that it is not that grandparents should have a specific right of access to their grandchildren, but that the child should have a right, as in France, to have contact with their extended family, including grandparents..
Matthew said: “Disputes involving children can be complex, but placing the emphasis of entitlement on the child, rather than the grandparent – whose relationship with the parents is often difficult and fraught – must be the way forward.It is therefore very encouraging that MPs of all parties are pressing Ministers for a change to the Children’s Act 1989 to give the child a right in law to have a relationship with their grandparents and other members of their extended family.
"The Ministry of Justice has indicated that they will consider any proposals for helping children maintain involvement with grandparents. This will, I am sure, be very welcome by the many grandparents who are affected by this issue, some of whom have been fighting for years for the simple pleasure of having contact with their grandchildren.”
Dear Friends,
There has been such a huge response from grandparents all over the country and it seems there are so many of us in this sad situation. If I have duplicated this email to any of you, I apologize but I am emailing well over 100 grandparents and sadly I have no help this time !
Dame Esther together with Vanessa Lloyd Platt are working towards a convention of perhaps 500 grandparents followed by a march to Westminster.
In the meantime, Matthew Offord together with Nigel Huddlestone and now with a further 2 or 3 MPs are working towards amendments in the law.
www.matthewofford.co.uk/news/matthew-supports-grandparents-have-contact-grandchildren
I am sending some further links with this email. The blog from Sarah Jane Lenihan has also appeared on a Family Law website. Sarah Jane sent me the following which some of you may wish to take her up on:-
'I someone who would be willing to help grandparents with ad hoc tasks such as letter writing/drafting statements/application filling in/understanding the law, so that they would only pay a fee for small pieces of work rather than incurring large fees for full on litigation, if you have a reference point on your website please feel free to add me. I of course would not want to step on Vanessa’s toes and hence why I have emailed her but hope we can work together to get this important area of law changed and provide grandparents with the support they need.
Just by way of reference I have just finished supporting some grandparents through successfully having thrown out awful allegations of abuse that they are now be able to spend time unsupervised with their grandson'.
Sarah Jane Lenihan
Senior Solicitor,
London Victoria
For and on behalf of Stowe Family Law LLP
128 Buckingham Palace Road,
Belgravia
, London, SW1W 9SA
Tel:
0203 096 7077
Mob:
07711 000992
Article below written to Northampton group leader.
www.northamptonchron.co.uk/news/politics/northampton-support-group-for-grandparents-split-from-grandchildren-to-join-national-call-for-change-1-9049734
below message from Daily Express reporter, look out for the article on Saturday, the day preceding Grandparents Day. Many of the Support groups are working hard to highlight this sad situation and some have been speaking on the radio and have had articles published. We must all continue with this work and encourage our MPs to become involved.
Thank you everyone for your support and I look forward to meeting some new grandparents this month at the meeting in Hendon.
With all very best wishes and Shana Tova to my Jewish members.
Lorraine
This is the message for the grandparents: "The Daily Express will publish its article on grandparents/grandchildren estrangement on Saturday ahead of National Grandparents Day on Sunday. Kat Hopps (the reporter who attended the day at Westminster) would like to thank everyone who spoke with her and shared their story. While she will not be able to feature the story of everyone who she spoke with, she would like to reiterate how grateful she is for their time and hope the published piece will be of some help in raising further awareness of the issue and bringing about change."
Best wishes,
Kat
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Kat Hopps
Features Writer
Daily Express