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Spending significant birthday alone- ideas?

(31 Posts)
Harris27 Wed 01-Jan-20 11:53:45

I too have a significant birthday at the end of January and I hope I will spend it with some family and friends, but if not I would treat myself to a days shopping and buy myself something really nice topped up with a delicious meal and glass of wine. My brother is on his own and does Shearings holidays short stay ones but he said everyone is lovely and often there’s others on their own as well.

vinasol Wed 01-Jan-20 11:52:26

I think an organised coach trip sounds a good idea. Something like Shearings or the likes. I know they do mini breaks. Whatever you choose you do I hope that you have a lovely time.

Canalboatgranma Wed 01-Jan-20 11:49:11

Perhaps an organized short break, coach trip perhaps? Then you can interact with others, or not if you don't want to be sociable. Hope you enjoy your birthday whatever you do.

ineedamum Wed 01-Jan-20 11:48:29

That's a nice idea, would it look strange if I was alone?

I always assumed I would go abroad- where nobody knows me as I do feel shame at travelling alone.

DoraMarr Wed 01-Jan-20 11:44:19

I hope you enjoy your birthday, whatever you do. Can I suggest that rather than endure the stresses of travelling abroad you choose a lovely country hotel a short distance away and spend a couple of days strolling through the grounds, eating delicious food and having a massage or a facial?

ineedamum Wed 01-Jan-20 11:38:29

This year, I will have a significant birthday and will be alone. I always find birthdays difficult, and this year will be no different.

I'm thinking of going away, any ideas of a fairly cheap getaway? Perhaps you have other ideas?