I am glad this has all been sorted but intrigued to know why your husband flew out to the christening and you were told no (in the nicest possible terms) I would have been more upset about that than what I was going to be called. Why did your husband fly out and not you?
Moot point I guess but agree being called Mama and Papa is more for parents than grandparents. My kids call me Mama, my mother is Grandma but what does it matter? If they wanted to call her Mama 2 I wouldn't have cared. They know who their mum is.
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