My granddaughter said she hates me

How very sad I hope you can somehow get back on terms with them.

Seriously ? Take a long hard look at yourself, wobble your head and start over.

I wonder if this is a windup!
Why complain to us?
If it's real, it's sad but DGD doesn't hate you nana. She is mimicking the others.
If you go off in a huff you will make things worse.
You love those children so help them.

Have I woken up in a parallel universe? ?

This is going to get much worse if the parents are spending all their money on drugs Nana.

Assuming it is not a wind up!.

I think there’s a few problems here nanaof2, firstly you give them anything they want, Really! New toys etc, food as your son and his new partner spend all their money on weed!, not good role models are they, the five year old has got a mobile, she’s on snapchat and sent a video ranting at you as she hates you, what a mess, where’s the girls mum in all this? Is she aware that her ex and partner spend all money on weed, sorry you have depression and other health problems, I really feel for these children. Certainly not the way to parent

indeed.

The 5 year old has a phone and knows how to use Snapchat?
Seriously?

I think the problem is I give them anything they want.
Sorry to be harsh, but are you trying to buy their and your son's affection?. The more you give in, the more they will want. The situation will just get worse.
Those poor wee girls, their father spends all his money on weed and you have to pay for food. What a dreadful scenario.?

The 5 year old’s phone?