I am talking about young people I have met through work, ( my customers) , they don't want to mix, they will use appalling language when talking about people from other ethnicities, they won't consider that black/Asian people aren't the ones who are preventing them from having what they want . I wasn't talking about my adult children , but others who are if you like to put it this way 'are at the bottom of the pile' .
FWIW , if we are being honest my youngest was beaten up by a gang of boys who were of Pakistani origin, It happened regularly to him at the school he attended. The school had a very good reputation, but there was a group of boys who picked on him because he has autism. The school did nothing for years .When we complained we were told that the boys in question could not have behaved as they did because they were from an oppressed minority. It only stopped when a teacher witnessed an incident in which my son was beaten . Comments were made to him during the assault that left no-one in any doubt as to what was happening . I can also tell you that my husbands family are Romanies ,. i.e , gypsies and that was part of the reason that he was attacked. after that all hell broke loose because, of course, we were right all along. He was being assaulted and bullied.
Why am I telling you this now ? Because racism is present in all groups , not just white people. It's just not talked about .