I’m Grandma. The other grandmother is also Grandma. My SIL said the tradition in his family was that the father’s mother was always Grandma and the mother’s mother was Nana. My daughter (who had asked me what I wanted to be called) said the tradition she knew was the other way round.
MIL and I are both happy to be Grandma and the children didn’t seem to mind.
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?



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