When any marriage breaks up, especially ones involving children, there will be a lot of bad feeling on both sides. You have to be supportive and never, ever take sides. They could decide at a later date to give it another go.
Just be available for your gc as much as you can and again, stay neutral if the gc decide to tell you/ask you stuff. Hopefully, when the dust settles, and the parents start thinking about their children’s welfare, they can make a new ‘normal’ life for all concerned.
Both my daughters have had failed marriages for different reasons, but now, they get along with their ex partners, I get on with their ex partners and the children are parented with mum, dad, step mums and extended families and feel very loved and secure. It seems to be more the ‘norm’ now. Just don’t ever let yourself get dragged into their problems. Good luck.
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