0wlfred
'Death be not proud' by John Donne; helps me keep a sense of perspective. I am also very fond of Kipling's 'If' except for the last line (You'll be a man, my son).
What's wrong with the last line? Isn't the poem all about growing up and what qualities are needed to be an adult in a difficult world?
I like to bit about walking with kings and not losing the common touch. John Saxbee, Bishop of Lincoln springs to mind.