Msida.. just hugs from me, but my dh died Nov 2019, I am into my 2nd year of living alone for the first time in my life.
I thought that when I got into the 2nd year it would get easier..
but it hasn`t
we are ALL different... and grieve differently.
I am still working on this thought, it does and has so helped me to hear how over bereaved people feel etc.
now these lockups! well I think they are the biggest cause of problems, for everyone, whether or not bereaved,, but then aren`t we, most of us, bereaved with these lockups?
with the way our lives have changed?
well that is my thoughts on this... of course, you may not agree, but I have found that my best of friends,, well my feelings are all over the place,,, I see problems coming from them, which I am learning are coming from me... and we are told to be positive... keep smiling.... yet I have found it such a help to hear how other people are coping,,
bereavement AND the lockups! life generally is not easy...
so sending love and hugs and prayers Msida,,, doubt I have been much help, but just saying how it is for me,,
hope you feel better soon