DH and I married fairly late in life in 2011.
MiL 90 at the time was a really lovely, if formidable lady.
She loved her son dearly, but was under no illusions about him and his legendary levels of laziness and inactivity, and shortly before the wedding she asked me ' are you sure you know what you are taking on'
Our respective families lived in different parts of the country and the wedding was the first time they met. Dad told me that my husband's dear mother told him that 'she was pleased with the match'........praise indeed as she never tolerated fools lightly.
I loved her very much and we would spend hours talking in her little kitchen when I visited her. Sadly this special lady is no longer with us, and is very much missed.
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