I regularly put my children in the bus to visit their grandparents. My daughter would have been about eight, and her brother four. It never really occurred to me that it wasn’t a very good idea, they loved it.
I’m sure I’ve made many mistakes, but one that sticks out is another holiday tale. Under pressure I let my youngest go on a camping holiday with a friend, lovely people, but very volatile, always rowing, and their idea of parenting was letting them get on with it.
I knew they would be basically without supervision for the week. After I agreed she could go, all I could think about was how to get out of it, but she went, survived and had a great time. Although she did say she spent a lot of time with her friends dad, because she felt sorry for him.