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Problem with 'workman'. Help please!

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FannyCornforth Fri 04-Jun-21 08:34:04

Hello Everyone!

I tried to name change prior to posting this, but failed.
Anyway, the problem is with the bloke (now blokes) who clean my bins.
These are the facts. I'm trying to keep it simple.

John (not his real name) has been cleaning my general waste bin once a month for over ten years.
I pay him in advance, once a year by cheque.
To begin with he did it on his own, but more recently a young woman (may be his daughter) has been doing it.
Once he rang my phone to ask me when the Xmas bin collection was, so that shows that he had/has my number.

Towards the end of last year, he didn't come to clean the bin for at least three months.
I phoned his house but no answer (no email or website)
NB I have paid John in advance until August 2021

So - I arranged for a new bloke (let's call him Ben) to clean the bins. He seems a really nice chap. I've emailed him in the past and also once texted him and got a quick and friendly reply.
Ben has been cleaning my bins now for three months.

Anyway, yesterday, just after Ben had cleaned the bin, John knocks on the door. The young woman is waiting in the van.
Before I have time to say anything, he goes on and on about being in hospital for nine weeks with Covid.
It was obvious that be wanted me to cancel with Ben and resume with him.
I explained that I tried to contact him, but he just went on and on about having Covid and nearly dying.
I said that I understood because my DH had had the same experience.
John didn't listen and kept repeating the same stuff, a lot of which sounded a bit nonsensical.
To get rid of him I asked for his number and I said I'd have a think and let him know.
He said that he'd come back next month - which sounds a bit threatening to be honest.
I know that I should probably just told him to sling his book, but it all took me by surprise and I didn't know what to say - he wouldn't let me get a word in anyway!

Basically - what would you do? Should I text him or phone him?
I do really want him to have my number.
And I'm also not sure what to say. I know this sounds daft and that I'm being a big wuss!

Thank you!

montymops Wed 09-Jun-21 18:30:24

No not at all. But John had worked for her for ten years - so must have given satisfactory service - that length of service deserves some consideration and understanding. He was also paid in advance so trust must have been there. The reason why no explanation was given at the time, really needs to be Investigated because people are making huge assumptions about the woman who was with him on occasions. She might have been his daughter, or his wife, or just a mate seeing how the job was done - maybe she didn’t know him well at all? I can see it is a problem having now employed someone else but I still feel sorry for John.

FannyCornforth Thu 10-Jun-21 09:59:02

Hello montymops
Just to clarify, the woman who I refer to was actually doing the job for around a year.
I hadn't actually seen John in all that time.
His entire story / excuse / reason relies on the assumption that I didn't know that the woman was cleaning the bins.
When he came to the house last week, he had plenty of time to explain his absence - in fact he didn't shut up and I didn't get a word in.
And it didn't really make any sense.
I mentioned that my DH had been hospitalised with Covid, and he didn't even acknowledge what I had said.

FannyCornforth Thu 10-Jun-21 10:03:03

So that's around 18 months plus since I saw John.

JaneJudge Thu 10-Jun-21 10:13:59

I have my bins cleaned too. The chap lives in my village in a BIG house and they have a fleet of bin cleaners now and I have seen him advertise for bin cleaners and he plays pretty well in all honesty.

I also pay 12 months in advance grin

JaneJudge Thu 10-Jun-21 10:16:08

I have to say I am very tickled that this could be made up grin Frank would have been really disappointed that his teaching had led to this level of 'imagination' wink

FannyCornforth Thu 10-Jun-21 10:24:49

Thank you Jane - as I said previously, I was beginning to feel like a right weirdo!
I'm rather saddened that nanna8 never came back to explain her cynicism.
Yes, it's not exactly top-trolling, is it grin

FannyCornforth Thu 10-Jun-21 10:27:17

Oh, and if anyone is still interested ?
I still haven't contacted John...

Blossoming Thu 10-Jun-21 10:42:09

FannyCornforth. I can’t believe some of the responses on this thread. John has not given you a satisfactory service, I don’t think he’s telling you the truth. If he was ill with Covid etc he should have let you know. You paid for your bin to be cleaned, it wasn’t. and you found someone else who has provided a good service. Continue with Ben and don’t be guilt tripped by John, his daughter or people on social media.

Sounds like Nanna2 might have been made up grin

FannyCornforth Thu 10-Jun-21 11:27:02

Thank you Blossoming! flowers