sharon103
You can’t have your cake and eat it too is a phrase that means there are two options that someone wants, but they can’t have both because the options conflict with each other, so they can only pick one.
Well maybe they should only pick one option but a lot of people WANT to have their cake and eat it and so they do just that. They do both things. This may not end well of course because as we all know.....you can't have your cake and eat it. Somewhere along the line this will likely cause problems, but that may not stop them taking that path.