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Life with an 18 month old dog

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LauraNorder Sat 11-Sept-21 12:07:45

Maybe some dog training to calm Rana roo wouldn’t go amiss.
Lots you can do with your littlest grandchild away from your home.
I don’t understand this preoccupation with sleepovers. You’re not bonding while you’re all asleep.
She’ll soon be a little bit older and the bonds will be as strong as with your other grandchildren.

NanaandGrampy Sat 11-Sept-21 12:04:04

Why not just train your dog to not be an “ enthusiastic” greeter? It’s perfectly possible .

I’ve had dogs all my life , in some cases giant breeds and they were all taught to sit and wait to be told it’s ok to say hello . For our little ones that meant usually they climbed on the sofa and the dog came to them , nice pat - job done.

A tip told to me by a behaviourist was to shut an enthusiastic dog in another room for ten minutes when people arrive. By the time you let them out they aren’t so excited as the scent is an old one.

tanith Sat 11-Sept-21 12:01:07

If you’d rather give up having your GD overnight than keep your boisterous dog away that’s entirely your choice. Personally my family come before any animals sensibilities. I don’t mean that unkindly we all have different priorities in life god forbid we were all the same.

Neen Sat 11-Sept-21 11:49:28

I have 5 grandchildren who I have on a rota basis. I don't have the 3 year old ( youngest ) granddaughter at home though because Rana roo ( dog ) is strong and eager to splat guests with her whole being on your as she things she's a pug but she's a 24 kilo saluki. So as this Granddaughter has been scratched before I now have her but book thinks like sensory clubs ( autistic ) or productions or lunch out of instead, not stay over yet anymore but my daughter says she's worried I won't have the bond I have with her other two ( my other two are with my other daughter ) . I say she will be fine as I still book time out with her and when she's bigger she can stay too.
It's Rana and mine home not the grandchildrens and I feel that Rana has the right to be everywhere she normally is and if the 3 year old is here, I'm worried and Rana doesn't know what's up etc etc
Has anyone said no to their daughter to having a child overnight for now at home.