I have considered leaving her in a boarding kennel but every breath in my body tells me she would hate it…and I would spend my holiday worried sick
Really? Oh dear!
Rosie ? will be dropped off at our nearest kennels in a couple of hours as I am off on “granny duty” overnight. She pricks up her ears when she gets there and trots in quite happily and the better she gets to know the people there the easier it becomes.
I know she is safe, comfortable and with people who know about dogs.
Think of a child going to nursery because both parents have to work - of course they would rather be with you, but needs must, so you find a safe, loving environment and it also
helps your child to socialise and learn not to be entirely dependent on mummy and daddy.
Of course there are alternatives- for your dog when it comes to your holidays, house boarding, dog sitters, perhaps the ideal option but not necessarily perfect, as there may be issues of safety and insurance, but (and this is the big but) you chose to get a dog and that was likely to involve some lifestyle changes .
There are solutions, perhaps compromises, but if there weren’t nobody would ever have a dog!
It sounds as if home boarding or a “doggy friend” or family member might be best for you, or if she is crate trained, renting a dog friendly cottage where you can leave her just as you would at home if going out for a meal or to the cinema. Not all day but two or three hours should be possible.
Most dogs, once they have outgrown puppyhood will happily sleep for most of the day but I know you want your dog to be happy so do look at the various alternatives.