The way you have written that, some of those things are concerning. Nappy changes that infrequently, an egg for lunch (unless he's eating a lot more at other times). Not being able to go outside I wouldn't like, but that's a quirk I'd let go. Late night, as long as he's getting enough sleep overall, the schedule is just different. The forced bottle, I wouldn't be keen on that, but I did have a friend who pushed the bottles as her baby wasn't thriving and she had been instructed to push as much as she could, so I can see a possibility for an alternative explanation there. I understand wanting to minimise washing but a cold and wet child must be changed into something dry and warm. It must be hard to deal with some of those things, I can see that. As long as there are no welfare issues, some of the things like requiring an egg for lunch, a higher threshold for changing clothes and not being able to go outside are still her right as mother to decide on. And she still doesn't have to tell you when she's pregnant until she is ready.