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Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 10:45:01

My very pregnant daughter in law is going into hospital next week for bed rest prior to a planned C section. She will be there 10 days before the CS.
I want to give her a pack of treats to take in with her for her stay. As only DS can visit and at limited times it won’t be ideal. She is a big reader so has that sorted and took up knitting in lockdown and has projects on the go. Aware though that days are long in these places does anyone please have any ideas of what else I could give her or send with DS? I am at a bit of a loss.

Lucca Fri 05-Nov-21 14:34:43

Nice hand cream. A bottle of something like elderflower . A book. And some treat biscuits

NotANana Fri 05-Nov-21 14:23:58

A felting kit - for those moments when you just need to stab something?
Some luxury hand cream and some nice body cream for the stretch marks.

Grandmadinosaur Fri 05-Nov-21 14:20:10

Thank you Katyj I’ve used that one myself. I’ll add that to the list.

Katyj Fri 05-Nov-21 14:14:27

A sleep spray to use on her pillow or pjs I use the This works one and find it very comforting. Good luck.

Grandmadinosaur Fri 05-Nov-21 10:02:26

That is a very good point about the eye mask. Thank you. A few weeks ago she was in on an overnight stay and said she got little sleep so I’m sure it will be very welcome and useful.

crazyH Thu 04-Nov-21 21:31:01

I agree with eye mask -

LucyLocket55 Thu 04-Nov-21 21:26:45

Eye mask and earplugs so she can blot out light and noise in the days before the C section

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 21:21:28

Some brilliant ideas there thank you everyone. I like the ideas of the cable, the throw,cards and snacks especially.
I’ve plenty of things to go on there.

seacliff Thu 04-Nov-21 20:19:52

Maybe a small fleece throw. It can sometimes be chill, especiall with airing wards due to covid. A small fleece can e draped around neck or wherever.

Marydoll Thu 04-Nov-21 19:42:15

The long charging cable is an excellent idea. My phone was hanging from the wall, during my stay in Coronary Care, because my cable was too short.

DH had to bring me biscuits and hand them in through the window, (no visitors) because I was so hungry. and it was great to have one with the bedtime cuppa . I ended up sharing them around the room, as everyone felt the same.

V3ra Thu 04-Nov-21 19:01:38

Some packs of Christmas cards so she could get them addressed and ready to post while she's got the time.
She could also do her Christmas shopping online or on Amazon if she has friends or relatives she buys for. Save trying to find time to do it after the baby's born!

Will there be a handy socket to charge her phone or other appliances? She might need a long charging cable, and she might find an external power pack useful.

Bibbity Thu 04-Nov-21 15:53:00

Is there a TV in her room? They could take a fire stick.

Kamiso Thu 04-Nov-21 15:47:38

I’ve just spotted that they now do grapefruit scented online.

Also water wipes are quite refreshing and widely available.

My mum used to peel and slice up an orange for my gran, then put it in a jam jar.

Kamiso Thu 04-Nov-21 15:43:32

I bought these when I thought we would be travelling. They’ve come in useful over our move though I ‘m not keen on the coconut scent.

www.freshwipes.co.uk/products/freshwipes-body-hygiene-wipes?variant=38115577528516¤cy=GBP&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwiY6MBhBqEiwARFSCPpf61db4XXWixMCz2aTRQUm3MEAPc2LXf6hsa1cUs-ilXTypt4ljXhoClBUQAvD_BwE

Madgran77 Thu 04-Nov-21 15:41:15

I think a range of magazines is good and if she likes crafts maybe magazines linked to her craft interests. Some nice smelling handcream and other manicure bits and bobs.

Airedale19 Thu 04-Nov-21 15:34:09

Earplugs and/or headphones.

Humbertbear Thu 04-Nov-21 15:28:22

I was in hospital recently and they had done away with lockers so there was nowhere to put anything except in your bag. If that’s the case she won’t want too much stuff.

Eviebeanz Thu 04-Nov-21 14:34:07

Sachets of herbal/fruit tea if she likes that sort of thing

Eviebeanz Thu 04-Nov-21 14:32:22

Some nice gentle wipes maybe cucumber scented to freshen up

ElaineI Thu 04-Nov-21 14:27:55

Sorry cream as skin might get dry if it's warm.

ElaineI Thu 04-Nov-21 14:27:23

Maybe something like haribos or mints that you can suck/chew if you have a yucky taste.
Nice cream for your skin as will be warm in hospital.
Packet of biscuits eg. hobnobs.
Shawl in case she is sitting in a draft as it's turning cold.

luluaugust Thu 04-Nov-21 14:22:27

Having spent a couple of long periods in hospital I think magazines were the most useful things. Unless you are in a room on your own so much keeps happening throughout the day that it is quite disjointed. I am a great reader but kept getting interrupted, other expectant mums do like to chat. Of course in covid times it may be different. Certainly have some extra food bits and pieces but again with little physical activity you don't always feel very hungry.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 12:16:38

I was also thinking of a few snack ideas as the hospital food might not be the best.
Thank you Riverwalk

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 12:15:14

Thank you muse yes she has a device for music and films as she is a big film fan.

I like the craft ideas too I have seen some small Christmas ones in the works. I think I need a trip to the city centre to browse Waterstones etc .

Riverwalk Thu 04-Nov-21 12:12:38

Snacks, such as cereal bars.