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Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 10:45:01

My very pregnant daughter in law is going into hospital next week for bed rest prior to a planned C section. She will be there 10 days before the CS.
I want to give her a pack of treats to take in with her for her stay. As only DS can visit and at limited times it won’t be ideal. She is a big reader so has that sorted and took up knitting in lockdown and has projects on the go. Aware though that days are long in these places does anyone please have any ideas of what else I could give her or send with DS? I am at a bit of a loss.

Fleur20 Thu 04-Nov-21 10:49:00

A little set so she can give herself a simple manicure? She wont have time afterwards!!
A puzzle collection book AND pen!!
Some bottles of flavoured water.. unusual ones.. but watch the herbs!!

MamaCaz Thu 04-Nov-21 11:15:20

Is she the sort of person who might enjoy a little colouring book and crayons?

Hithere Thu 04-Nov-21 11:27:43

A kindle?

muse Thu 04-Nov-21 11:57:30

Will she have something with her music on or watch a film?

You said books are all sorted but how about a book of short funny stories she can dip and out of?

Little craft kits - there are lots on Etsy.

Two I can recommend.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 12:12:19

Thank you for the replies. Some good ideas there.

She has a kindle already that she is taking with her as well as actual books.
I like the idea of colouring and puzzle books and yes they are so her! Why didn’t I think of that ?
The bottled water is another good idea and I think I might get her a small box of chocolates from a very nice local chocolatier.

Riverwalk Thu 04-Nov-21 12:12:38

Snacks, such as cereal bars.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 12:15:14

Thank you muse yes she has a device for music and films as she is a big film fan.

I like the craft ideas too I have seen some small Christmas ones in the works. I think I need a trip to the city centre to browse Waterstones etc .

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 12:16:38

I was also thinking of a few snack ideas as the hospital food might not be the best.
Thank you Riverwalk

luluaugust Thu 04-Nov-21 14:22:27

Having spent a couple of long periods in hospital I think magazines were the most useful things. Unless you are in a room on your own so much keeps happening throughout the day that it is quite disjointed. I am a great reader but kept getting interrupted, other expectant mums do like to chat. Of course in covid times it may be different. Certainly have some extra food bits and pieces but again with little physical activity you don't always feel very hungry.

ElaineI Thu 04-Nov-21 14:27:23

Maybe something like haribos or mints that you can suck/chew if you have a yucky taste.
Nice cream for your skin as will be warm in hospital.
Packet of biscuits eg. hobnobs.
Shawl in case she is sitting in a draft as it's turning cold.

ElaineI Thu 04-Nov-21 14:27:55

Sorry cream as skin might get dry if it's warm.

Eviebeanz Thu 04-Nov-21 14:32:22

Some nice gentle wipes maybe cucumber scented to freshen up

Eviebeanz Thu 04-Nov-21 14:34:07

Sachets of herbal/fruit tea if she likes that sort of thing

Humbertbear Thu 04-Nov-21 15:28:22

I was in hospital recently and they had done away with lockers so there was nowhere to put anything except in your bag. If that’s the case she won’t want too much stuff.

Airedale19 Thu 04-Nov-21 15:34:09

Earplugs and/or headphones.

Madgran77 Thu 04-Nov-21 15:41:15

I think a range of magazines is good and if she likes crafts maybe magazines linked to her craft interests. Some nice smelling handcream and other manicure bits and bobs.

Kamiso Thu 04-Nov-21 15:43:32

I bought these when I thought we would be travelling. They’ve come in useful over our move though I ‘m not keen on the coconut scent.

www.freshwipes.co.uk/products/freshwipes-body-hygiene-wipes?variant=38115577528516¤cy=GBP&utm_medium=product_sync&utm_source=google&utm_content=sag_organic&utm_campaign=sag_organic&gclid=CjwKCAjwiY6MBhBqEiwARFSCPpf61db4XXWixMCz2aTRQUm3MEAPc2LXf6hsa1cUs-ilXTypt4ljXhoClBUQAvD_BwE

Kamiso Thu 04-Nov-21 15:47:38

I’ve just spotted that they now do grapefruit scented online.

Also water wipes are quite refreshing and widely available.

My mum used to peel and slice up an orange for my gran, then put it in a jam jar.

Bibbity Thu 04-Nov-21 15:53:00

Is there a TV in her room? They could take a fire stick.

V3ra Thu 04-Nov-21 19:01:38

Some packs of Christmas cards so she could get them addressed and ready to post while she's got the time.
She could also do her Christmas shopping online or on Amazon if she has friends or relatives she buys for. Save trying to find time to do it after the baby's born!

Will there be a handy socket to charge her phone or other appliances? She might need a long charging cable, and she might find an external power pack useful.

Marydoll Thu 04-Nov-21 19:42:15

The long charging cable is an excellent idea. My phone was hanging from the wall, during my stay in Coronary Care, because my cable was too short.

DH had to bring me biscuits and hand them in through the window, (no visitors) because I was so hungry. and it was great to have one with the bedtime cuppa . I ended up sharing them around the room, as everyone felt the same.

seacliff Thu 04-Nov-21 20:19:52

Maybe a small fleece throw. It can sometimes be chill, especiall with airing wards due to covid. A small fleece can e draped around neck or wherever.

Grandmadinosaur Thu 04-Nov-21 21:21:28

Some brilliant ideas there thank you everyone. I like the ideas of the cable, the throw,cards and snacks especially.
I’ve plenty of things to go on there.

LucyLocket55 Thu 04-Nov-21 21:26:45

Eye mask and earplugs so she can blot out light and noise in the days before the C section