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Alcoholic - is it too late?

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Borninthe50s Tue 28-Dec-21 22:45:51

I’ve had a life-long drinking problem. Things have escalated so badly now that I’m destroying my relationships and acknowledge that I’m an alcoholic. I’m late 60s; has anyone managed to stop drinking at this late stage in life? I know that if I don’t stop now it’s either going to kill me or estrange my beloved child and destroy ny new relationship (or probably both). Is it too late for me?

Pythagoras Thu 27-Jan-22 21:42:50

Borninthe1950s I just want to add to all the good advice and support that you've already been given - that there is (research shows) a "continuous positive effect" in that all your previous attempts will have been of accumulative value even if you don't realise it - and this may just be the time you finally give up altogether. Recovery is not linear, it is a spiral and sometimes even a bit of a "Snakes and Ladders" game. smile

Good luck, the ladders are right there, and you're on the first rung. (Your daughter sounds lovely too).

NanKate Thu 27-Jan-22 22:13:07

I’ve noticed many tv serials show people drinking copious amounts of alcohol at the drop of a hat, making it look normal and everyday. Similar I suppose to how we used to see people lighting up a cigarette. It makes it look the norm and so encourages excessive drinking.

My sister is married to an alcoholic, just like his late father and brother. So sad.