I always felt so safe and secure in my car. Would happily drive anywhere anytime. Plenty of maps in car, later on satnavs also. Never imagined a time I would not have a car.
When I was looking for a new home many miles away from where I had always lived - a garage -was on my MUST HAVE list. And, when I did first move to Somerset, was quite happy driving to the eastern side of London to visit friends and family.
Always hoped that I was self-aware and sensible enough to know when I would need to stop driving - but it came on me quite quickly. Soon after my 80th birthday last summer, I accepted that I was no longer happy driving, by myself, back to London - preferred train.
Then, following a puncture during my weekly 6-mile round trip to Sainsbury's found myself 'listening' for noises each time I drove.
Sat down and worked out how much that weekly 6-mile round trip was costing (as it had become the only time I took the car out of the garage), and it was nearly a grand a year (Insurance, RAC cover, MOT, Service, occasional new tyre/repairs, etc). Decided I did not wish to wait either for a major accident or a series of small ones - and sold the car.
Fortunately, when I moved I had ensured that I was very close to good public transport - can use buses that stop right out my flats to and from Sainsbury's).
So, now I use my mobility scooter for all local journeys, and public transport with passenger assistance on trains, for longer journeys, and the local Dial a Ride and even the occasional taxi. Saving money, much more relaxed on all journeys.
I do not feel that, in any way, has not having a car, taken away any of my independence