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Thames boat trip, what to wear, help please.

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LovingThisStage Wed 14-Sept-22 00:25:20

I need urgent help with what to wear, please! I've lost my shape & sense of style along with it! Size 16 and very curvy.

DH has a company 'Summer Event'' - a thames cruise and
then lunch at a restaurant.

Trouble is, it's no longer very summery, but not cold yet either. Also, the invitation makes no mention of a dress code.

Any ideas, please?

RosieandherMaw Mon 08-Dec-25 13:01:50

2022

eazybee Mon 08-Dec-25 12:48:31

September 2023!

RosieandherMaw Mon 08-Dec-25 05:55:58

Reported

eldenmarsh Mon 08-Dec-25 05:38:27

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annodomini Wed 27-Sept-23 09:56:12

Since this thread is a year old, could the OP come back and let us know what she wore?

dragonfly46 Wed 27-Sept-23 09:52:57

I think this ship has sailed!!

Patsy70 Wed 27-Sept-23 09:52:57

What did you wear LovingThisStage, and did you enjoy yourself?

Witzend Wed 27-Sept-23 09:46:22

I’d go for smart casual, with a nice warm cover-up and a scarf.

Shelflife Wed 27-Sept-23 09:42:51

Definitely flat comfy shoes , definitely trousers loose jumper or tunic top. I imagine it will be casual dress. Have a lovely time - I agree size 16 is not big !!! Have a wonderful time and don't worry about what is appropriate dress - just be comfortable 🙂.

StacyAnna Wed 27-Sept-23 09:25:59

Primrose53

I’d wear some nice linen trousers, a plain tunic top and some on trend smart trainers. Even Camilla, Joanna Lumley and Judi Dench choose them over pumps or flats now. I have some fabulous animal print ones by Vanessa Wu and some shiny black ones with white soles. I would definitely take a waterproof jacket.

The thread was from last year, Primrose!

Primrose53 Wed 27-Sept-23 09:10:46

I’d wear some nice linen trousers, a plain tunic top and some on trend smart trainers. Even Camilla, Joanna Lumley and Judi Dench choose them over pumps or flats now. I have some fabulous animal print ones by Vanessa Wu and some shiny black ones with white soles. I would definitely take a waterproof jacket.

HelterSkelter1 Wed 27-Sept-23 06:33:11

I wonder what the OP wore after all and did she have a great time?

BlueBelle Wed 27-Sept-23 06:13:01

It happened a year ago I think your advice is not needed
henry
why did you pen an old old thread ?

henryspeacila Wed 27-Sept-23 03:56:06

Opt for lightweight, breathable clothing such as shorts, a t-shirt, a sun hat, and sunglasses. Moreover, explore more outfit options like a midi dress, jumpsuit, or maxi dress.

grannyro Sun 18-Sept-22 13:45:33

It is nearly always cold on boats (unless you are cruising the Caribbean!) What ever you decide on take a wrap or jacket.

Coco51 Sun 18-Sept-22 10:38:27

naval

Coco51 Sun 18-Sept-22 10:36:38

Sorry to be irreverent, but your request reminded me of Mrs Bucket wearing navel apparel in ‘keeping up appearances’ ?

Germanshepherdsmum Sat 17-Sept-22 09:13:29

I’m not laughing.

Tamayra Sat 17-Sept-22 03:34:08

Oh for heavens sake
It’s just a wee giggle smile

Gabrielle56 Fri 16-Sept-22 15:11:56

Firstly .forget ageing shawls/ throws/ wraps and high heels! It's a boat trip not Ascot! I'd go for smart Chino style trousers , cotton shirt and maybe a short jacket/ cardigan with a scarf to help with cold breezes, a silk/ cotton neck scarf not a granny wrap! With stylish, good quality flat loafers or classy comfortable flat shoes to compliment your look. M&S have most of these items , so not bank crashing! Emphasis on understated and classy, don't wan to to o look as if you've never been on a boat before , on other hand , you don't want to to look like Hyacinth on her boat trip either!! Hope yo in have a smashing time ,! Thames trips are so interesting, you'll love it but only if you feel comfortable and yourself.xx

grandtanteJE65 Fri 16-Sept-22 13:41:11

To start with:
phone whoever in your husband's work-place is organising this do and ask if there is a dress code.

If there is and you didn't find out because your DH wasn't listening when it was mentioned, you will feel wrong-footed from the start of the evening.

If there isn't a dress code, are you a woman who habitually wears skirts or dresses, or du you wear jeans or slacks for preference?

Chose your preference, then try on some of your existing clothes and decide what you will feel best in.

Remember if you are to be out on deck, it is always colder on the water than on shore. So dress warmly, and as already said, preferably with a layer you can take off, or put on at need, brought along with you rolled up in a shoulder bag or the like.

A thin rainproof is a MUST.

Flat shoes - you may be able to get around on a passenger boat in heels but it is doubtful, and if the boat is privately owned heels are frowned on as they damage the decks.

Gangplanks and jetties are also a real pain in the neck if you wear heels.

Remember sun-glasses if this do starts in daylight, as the glare of sun on water can be very unpleasant.

Depending on your hair-style, you might also want to take some kirby grips or a head-scarf with you to stop your hair flying around in the wind.

Enjoy yourself!

Soniah Fri 16-Sept-22 12:42:50

If you like seasalt Louise's Closet. Com have seasalt clothes at great prices, I just bout 3 tops for £51 including postage, very quick delivery etc, not bad when a larisa shirt is £45 now. They wash well and last for years. Seasalt end of sale is on too.

Supernan Fri 16-Sept-22 11:41:35

Layers. By the way 16 is not big!!!

JdotJ Fri 16-Sept-22 11:27:27

I like that dress but at £98 !!!!

No thank you

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 14-Sept-22 19:24:16

I agree Maw.