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FannyCornforth Sat 12-Nov-22 16:40:25

No. I’ve read it 5 times now, and I don’t understand

FannyCornforth Sat 12-Nov-22 16:39:32

I’m sorry, I don’t understand your post.
I thought that your daughter had already decided to come to you, without her husband.
That’s what you say at the beginning of your post.
Perhaps use words instead of initials

Nana56 Sat 12-Nov-22 16:34:36

I have invited my DD and my DS and family for Sunday lunch.
My Dd told me she will come with her children but her husband may not.
He tends to avoid us even nit coming to the door to help DD unload prams etc.
He used to stay when they lived away.
I feel we must have upset him but have no idea why.
I dont want to ask DD as she us very family orientated and I'm sure they will have discussed this and I don't want to cause upset.
I just think it's really offensive and rude. I know Dd will be upset, she's made excuses for him in the past.
Thanks for reading