I retired early with a reduced pension having used my lump sum plus savings from a previous house sale to buy a rental property which brought in a small income. I was exhausted by juggling care and career and commuting to be honest. Then found I could claim carer allowance for what I was already doing. Once I reached state pension age the carer allowance stopped, a bit unfair as I still manage a lot of quite complex medical procedures and rarely get a whole night's sleep. My partner, who is younger, was offered a great redundancy package and retired and now he claims the carer allowance and does a large amount of it. We both have a busy time as carers and couldn't find time to work so won't be looking for the foreseeable. I'm probably too decrepit to work many hours and I can't see anyone employing me given I left a job I really enjoyed several years ago as I didn't have the capacity to run round like a headless chicken all day. Commuting was definitely the worst part, the uncertainty, the hours wasted by waiting for late trains, standing in crowded corridors, really dampened my enthusiasm for a job I otherwise enjoyed. I wouldn't go back to it for any amount of money now. I could be better off financially but life's too short and I'd rather meet friends and walk the dog.
Gals, I'm going grey!! Need words of encouragement
“We start school too early in the UK!”



