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Cabbie21 Thu 27-Apr-23 22:40:52

About what to do immediately after my DH sadly dies this coming night.
Sorry to be blunt. I want to be practical before we reach the inevitable. Please don't join in if you find this upsetting.
I am writing here because everyone else in my family will be asleep when the inevitable happens.

SueDonim Fri 28-Apr-23 21:02:21

I’m so sorry, Cabbie. Thinking of you and your family. flowers

Joane123 Fri 28-Apr-23 20:50:31

So sorry Cabbie flowers

Doodle Fri 28-Apr-23 20:46:23

Cabnie so sorry for you and your stepdaughter. In my prayers. flowers

Chrissielou Fri 28-Apr-23 19:28:47

Thinking of you and your family at this terribly sad time.

LauraNorderr Fri 28-Apr-23 19:21:58

Wrapping a soft warm Gransnet blanket around you Cabbie and holding you tight.

Kalu Fri 28-Apr-23 19:08:59

So sorry to read your sad news Cabbie. Sending heartfelt condolences to you. 💐

Kim19 Fri 28-Apr-23 18:41:17

Thanks for turning to us for support, Cabbie, and for being kind enough to share with us. Sincere condolences 🌷

CanadianGran Fri 28-Apr-23 18:24:23

So sorry for your loss, condolences to you and your family.flowers

Nana56 Fri 28-Apr-23 18:13:35

So sorry for your lossflowers

Romola Fri 28-Apr-23 14:36:41

Please accept my sympathy. I went through this nearly 7 months ago.
Gransnet has been such a source of consolation. Come back soon!

Wheniwasyourage Fri 28-Apr-23 14:19:55

Sending condolences to you, Cabbie21 💐

Oldbat1 Fri 28-Apr-23 13:35:06

So sorry to read of your Dh death. flowers

maddyone Fri 28-Apr-23 13:20:42

Cabbie flowers

SachaMac Fri 28-Apr-23 13:14:35

Sending thoughts and condolences Cabbieflowers I have been in your shoes, it’s very hard. My advice would be just take time to absorb all that’s happened, accept any help offered and try to look after yourself.

Ziplok Fri 28-Apr-23 12:05:07

Condolences to you and your family Cabbie21 💐

Shelflife Fri 28-Apr-23 12:04:23

Oh Cabbie , you have had a tough time. My sympathy is with you and I hope contacting GN gave you a little comfort. Thinking of you 🌹🌹

Shelflife Fri 28-Apr-23 11:59:03

Cabbie 21 ,my sympathy is with you. A tough time indeed. Hope contacting GN gave a little comfort, thinking of you 🌹🌹

mamaa Fri 28-Apr-23 11:34:39

Sincere condolences to you and your family Cabbie, so sorry for your loss. flowers

lixy Fri 28-Apr-23 11:24:29

Oh Cabbie, so sorry to hear this. Take care.

rjack Fri 28-Apr-23 11:20:28

So very sorry to hear your sad news. Thoughts are with you. Passing in hospital can be a very different experience than passing at home.xx

DamaskRose Fri 28-Apr-23 11:10:29

So sorry for your loss Cabbie flowers

Sorchame Fri 28-Apr-23 11:06:56

So sorry for your loss Cabbie

Georgesgran Fri 28-Apr-23 10:29:04

💐sincere condolences Cabbie21

Callistemon21 Fri 28-Apr-23 10:27:57

Sending condolences to you and your family, Cabbie
A long night but he is at peace now
Take care of yourself
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V3ra Fri 28-Apr-23 10:22:46

Such sad news, but what an outpouring of love and support from everyone 😢