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child taken abroad bu son's x partner

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Hithere Mon 21-Aug-23 22:14:52

If there is no court order - no legal obligation to inform

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 21-Aug-23 22:13:35

They may not have been married. There may be no court order.

Hithere Mon 21-Aug-23 22:11:44

Child abduction is an huge overreaction assuming the child is with the mother and she still has rights to the child and it is on her custody time?

What does the court order say?
Does your son has to be notified?

Your son should calm down and talk to a lawyer

The relationship with the mother seems to be high conflict enough, no need to escalate it unnecessarily

Foxygloves Mon 21-Aug-23 22:09:54

How did your son's ex happen to have your grandson's passport?
Sorry to state the obvious AFTER the event but in the event of divorce it is important for a child's passport to be held securely eg by a solicitor if there is any threat of abduction. I hope there are others here who can advise on what can be done now

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 21-Aug-23 22:07:47

If they are only away for two weeks on holiday isn’t talking about abduction (of her own child!) a slight overreaction?

VioletSky Mon 21-Aug-23 22:07:17

They have gone on holiday and will be back in 2 weeks

Reporting would be quite extreme

Unless your son does not get the visitation rewarded by the courts on too many instances over a period of time, I would genuinely stay away

If your son wants more visitation this should definitely go back to court

crazyH Mon 21-Aug-23 22:06:04

Oh dear whogoesthere - my heart is aching for your son and yourself. I have no advice. I’m sure someone with knowledge or experience of these situations will come along with some practical advice. Thinking of youflowers

whogoesthere Mon 21-Aug-23 22:00:39

Any advice welcome, my son's x has taken my grandson abroad without notfying him, we only found out from `grandson that he wasgoing on holiday when we last saw him.My son wants to report her for child abduction-is this the right thing to do?He has a FaceTime call with the child every week but last weekend it did not happen and also i wanted to send some things for the child and she replied to my message saying she was away for the next 2 weeks but again not informing the childs father.