Sorry to hear your news kitty. A colleague of DH had this, diagnosed and treated about ten years ago. He has a PEG and is unable to talk but he does seem to have a fairly normal life. He used to go to the pub with them for their weekly meet ups and used to have a half of beer through his tube.
kittylester Sorry to hear this. He should have be assigned a Head & Neck cancer clinical nurse specialist. Could he ask him/her if there’s any patients who would be willing to share their story/journey? Or if they know of any specialist forums or local support groups. I attended a H&N cancer study day once and they had patients sharing their stories. The patients all knew each other and seemed to be friends and I assumed they had got to know each other through their link to the service.
I'm sorry that I cannot help, Kittylester, but I just wanted to say how sorry I am to read this and to wish all your family the very best at this difficult time🌹.
P.S, - just spoke to my sister -in-law. My brother also had squamous cell carcinoma - his treatments were surgery and radiation, but no chemotherapy. Wish your brother and all the family , the very best, during this anxious time.
So sorry kittylester- My brother had cancer of the Jaw - he lived for 7 years after diagnosis. He would have lived longer, but was a high functioning alcoholic and that probably shortened his life. Sad 😢
One of my brothers has recently had this diagnosis and is, understandably, quite anxious. He has had surgery and he knows he will have a PEG and a mask and that he needs chemo and radio therapy.