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An uplifting book recommendation please

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NanKate Sat 18-Nov-23 11:31:41

My oldest friend of over 61 years phoned me today to say she is going into hospital for a breast cancer op. šŸ™

I don’t live near her but want to send a book or something to pass the time when she is recovering.

She is a pragmatic sort of person and just gets on with life. So I want to send her a gift which is not flowery or sentimental in any way.

I think a non-fiction book would be good, possibly with humour. Do you have any suggestions please ?

albertina Mon 20-Nov-23 16:19:50

I love Bill Bryson.
Also Paul O'Grady wrote books about his life that should not be read on a bus with a full bladder !!

Diplomat Mon 20-Nov-23 16:20:44

I would also recommend Gervase Phinn, he is a retired Headteacher/Ofsted inspector and once gave a talk at the school where I worked. He was so funny, the best Inset (training day) I ever attended.

Unigran4 Mon 20-Nov-23 16:23:02

"My Village in the Valley" by
Michael Bartlett takes a whimsical look at village life. Short stories so easy to pick up and put down.

grannybuy Mon 20-Nov-23 16:30:18

David Sedaris books. Full of wry humour, and can be picked up and put down easily.

tictacnana Mon 20-Nov-23 16:40:53

Daughter of Time by Josephine Tay. Absolutely enthralling . Best book I ever read .

Romola Mon 20-Nov-23 16:43:34

My suggestion would be a book of Wendy Cope's poems. Some are only a few lines long, often with a wry comment on life, nearly always showing appreciation for everyday blessings.

pamdixon Mon 20-Nov-23 16:48:21

I'd definitely recommend Lessons in Chemistry too -a brilliant read with some unexpected bits in it!
Any of Richard Osman's books too - preferably read the first one first if you know what I mean so that you get to know all the characters.

sandelf Mon 20-Nov-23 16:59:21

Alexander McCall Smith - Any number one ladies detective agency one.

LadyGaGa Mon 20-Nov-23 17:04:01

I’ve just looked on Amazon for your book Devondumpling What an achievement- the reviews are excellent and it sounds like such a positive book. I’m sure you’re friend would love it Nankate

Anniel Mon 20-Nov-23 17:08:59

Primrose, I have read Alan Johnson’s book about his childhood and found it very moving. He is a really sincere and interesting man and I will look at his other books,

SachaMac Mon 20-Nov-23 17:14:40

Ive just read and really enjoyed a great cosy crime called Murder in Merrywell by Jane Bettany. I found it perfect to just curl up and relax with after a stressful day.

5553n Mon 20-Nov-23 17:28:40

5553n I've just reread Bridget Jones Baby and it was a hoot which I so enjoyed. What a spirit lifter

Soozikinzi Mon 20-Nov-23 18:07:10

Another Bill Bryson fan here and will be easy to pick up from short reads . Also the Salt path is uplifting and Dolly Alderton is entertaining..

Daddima Mon 20-Nov-23 18:51:19

Another vote for Bill Bryson, as you can dip in and out of them, so no deep concentration required.

I also enjoyed Whatever Next? by Lady Anne Glenconner, who has had quite a remarkable life, and tells her story so well. She also wrote Lady in Waiting, which deals with her time as lady-in-waiting to Princess Margaret.

Patsy70 Mon 20-Nov-23 18:51:41

What about Pam Ayres? I think her poems are so entertaining. 😊

Patsy70 Mon 20-Nov-23 18:54:09

Incidentally, thank you everyone. I’ve ordered a few of your suggestions. All best wishes to your friend NanKate.

JennyCee Mon 20-Nov-23 19:14:40

An absolute must is John Mortimer with ā€˜Murderers and Other Friends’’. It’s extremely funny as with all his books. There are also his ā€˜Rumpole’ books.

SunnySusie Mon 20-Nov-23 19:17:15

Reasons to be Cheerful by Nina Stibbe; Marian Keyes Rachel's Holiday: Marian Keyes Grown Ups; The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole by Sue Townsend; Terry Pratchett books.

Truffle1 Mon 20-Nov-23 19:27:28

You said you would like something uplifting and there is one book in my shelves that is moving, tragic, funny and definitely uplifting - Skallagrigg by William Horton. He also wrote Duncton Wood.
I remember reading this originally when I was in hospital for a spell. Definitely occupies the mind!

Qwerty Mon 20-Nov-23 21:39:02

I'm enjoying Annie Hawes "Extra Virgin" about her move, almost by accident, with her sister to a hillside cottage in Italy. Escapism, eccentric behaviour of the two women and the locals it's not demanding but we'll written and amusing.

Qwerty Mon 20-Nov-23 21:39:25

Well!

Gangan2 Mon 20-Nov-23 21:58:48

Some many great suggestions already but just wanted to add that I absolutely love my Audible app and a set of headphones. Maybe a couple of months subscription for your friend?
You can cancel at any time.
Wishing her a speedy recovery šŸ’

suelld Tue 21-Nov-23 00:51:21

Gangan2

Some many great suggestions already but just wanted to add that I absolutely love my Audible app and a set of headphones. Maybe a couple of months subscription for your friend?
You can cancel at any time.
Wishing her a speedy recovery šŸ’

GREAT IDEA - when I was in hospital for 4 weeks after nearly dying, I couldn’t read anything for about 3 weeks was so unwell, but I think if I’d been able to pop on some headphones and chose make my OWN choice of book that might have cheered me up a lot whilst being stuck on drips for hours. When I eventually was able to read I opted for gripping thrillers to take my mind off everything…and to save getting hands, etc, cold holding a book!

Gangan2 Tue 21-Nov-23 03:38:52

This is when i first discovered how good Audible was whilst in hospital. You can distance yourself from all going on around you ! And it keeps you company during those long nights.

HelterSkelter1 Tue 21-Nov-23 04:16:00

My daughter sent me The Fortnight in September by RC Sherriff when I was recovering from chemo. I loved it especially during insomniac nights courtesy of steroids.

I then read his Greengates which I really enjoyed as well.

Lots of good suggestions which I have noted for my next library book order. The Audible app and headphones suggestion is brilliant as well. Memo to self.