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What's the going rate?

(15 Posts)
Pearl30 Sun 26-Nov-23 16:25:21

Thx Bluebelle. I agree with your sentiment about teacher gifts. Just last week I showed my grandchildren a gift given to me by a child about 8 or 9 years ago It was a pre-used glass jar (cleaned out) that the child decorated and filled with sweets. The sweets are long gone, but I treasure the jar because of the time and creativity the child spent. The child was a self elected mute who took nearly the whole year before they spoke to me.

BlueBelle Sun 26-Nov-23 08:41:14

What a sensible post Pearl I think it’s far more important to give than the amount given and I m disappointment with the seeming competition amongst parents about giving for a teachers present I think that is pretty crass I m sure most teachers would appreciate something the child made more than an expensive present well I like to think that anyway

Pearl30 Sun 26-Nov-23 08:32:38

I’m a teacher too and I never give it a thought about how much the child’s family sponsored them for. It is always nice though for the child to have a few names on the sponsorship sheet. It doesn’t matter if the donation is just 50p. Across our (small) school these small amounts add up. On Children in Need days children brought in a few coppers, some £1, unless there was a cake stall 😂.
The most important aspect of these events in school is to instil in children a consideration of the needs of others, and to have a sense of local and global responsibility and their role in that. So the amount of money is not the most important aspect.
There should be no sense of pressure about giving more just because others do. The school will have a number of these events and so your donations will mount up over time.
An extra thought - giving your child £1 to donate rather than say £20 has greater impact on teaching him/her the value of money too, especially at the younger age.

Harris27 Sat 25-Nov-23 18:22:07

I’m a nursery teacher. £5 is enough x

Mallin Sat 25-Nov-23 16:55:43

Nothing. You’re paying for the nursery place. My money goes to the Sally Army for their charitable work.

Annsan Sat 25-Nov-23 16:54:53

I have never understood sponsoring…. I don’t do it, but am always happy to donate to charities directly.

Seajaye Sat 25-Nov-23 12:30:07

I'd go with £5.00 for this type of thing. You will have lots of fundraising requests from grandchildren to look forward to over the next 20 years or so so be mindful of the future trend you set and what you can afford .

Kim19 Thu 23-Nov-23 17:17:27

How much I donated would depend on what the cash was to be used for.

Pemem Thu 23-Nov-23 17:02:38

Thanks, I thought around £5 but didn't want to look tight 🤣

V3ra Wed 22-Nov-23 22:29:15

I love the idea of an "elf run"!
My two year old grandson did a sponsored Pudsey puddle splash at nursery for Children in Need.
We sent him £5 each, though I think he'd have happily jumped in puddles all day long regardless! 💦

lixy Wed 22-Nov-23 21:33:01

£5 from me too.
As Georgesgran says, it all adds up very quickly by the time you factor in school fundraisers as well.

Shelflife Wed 22-Nov-23 16:08:38

£5 is enough.

Georgesgran Wed 22-Nov-23 16:03:59

I think DDs do £5 - both school and nursery seem to have all sorts of fundraising/charity days - it all adds up.

Calendargirl Wed 22-Nov-23 13:43:59

My GC are long past that age. I thought about £5?

It’s nursery age, by the time they are teenagers doing sponsored swims etc., it would be more. .

Also depends on how many GC there are, can get quite expensive.

But perhaps I come across as mean?

Pemem Wed 22-Nov-23 13:02:00

Hi All, first post here

My question is what is the going rate for sponsoring children these days. Our grandson 18 months is doing an elf run at nursery for the local Xmas activities.
TIA