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Shinamae Sun 10-Dec-23 16:49:06

Shinamae

Oreo

Def time to leave and find something else.I work in the care sector and they are always on the look out for older women to do part time work, often things like coming in to help with teas or lunches.

So do I I work 18 hours a week in a high dementia care home the money is rubbish, but the job satisfaction is amazing..

And I’m 70..

Shinamae Sun 10-Dec-23 16:45:57

Oreo

Def time to leave and find something else.I work in the care sector and they are always on the look out for older women to do part time work, often things like coming in to help with teas or lunches.

So do I I work 18 hours a week in a high dementia care home the money is rubbish, but the job satisfaction is amazing..

sodapop Sun 10-Dec-23 16:43:43

Difficult though RainbowsandUnicorns when there are bills and a mortgage to be paid.

RainbowsAndUnicorns1 Sun 10-Dec-23 16:38:28

It is soul destroying going into work when you hate your job. I was in your position and in the end I just left. I knew in my heart of hearts that nothing would change. I had worked there for over 20 years, but that meant nothing, I was just a line on the balance sheet.

The day I left, I handed in my pass and just walked away, I didn't look back and I've never been back. I am so much happier now..

silverlining48 Sun 10-Dec-23 16:28:39

It’s miserable dreading going into work. Cutting to three days a week is a good idea but would also have a word with a manager if you can. They won’t want to lose you presumably given your long service and experience.
Otherwise maybe you can look for something else or perhaps if you can manage financially you might think about leaving,

Oreo Sun 10-Dec-23 16:12:41

Def time to leave and find something else.I work in the care sector and they are always on the look out for older women to do part time work, often things like coming in to help with teas or lunches.

Ziplok Sun 10-Dec-23 16:12:29

I think it would be a good idea to start looking around and applying for a post that appeals. I assume you wish to remain in retail?
In the meantime, is there someone in a more senior role you could approach to voice your concerns, particularly with regard to the cigarette kiosk and lotto? How do your colleagues feel - could you perhaps voice these concerns as a group rather than on your own?

sodapop Sun 10-Dec-23 16:10:18

I sympathise Lucy your post is so similar to a message from my daughter about her job as a community mental health nurse. Seems job satisfaction and good managerial skills are a thing of the past.
I hope things improve for you.

Coronation Sun 10-Dec-23 16:05:09

What do your colleagues think? You're loyal and hard working, you deserve to be happy in work

Coronation Sun 10-Dec-23 15:58:53

I think when you dread going into work it's time to think about a new one. You have so much experience I'm sure it will be easy to find new work. In some companies the staff are always happy so it may be worth applying to them.

LucyV1961 Sun 10-Dec-23 15:44:04

Hello, first time I have posted on this forum.Need advice .I have worked for same Supermarket for 26 years, t he company has got worse and worse with useless managers.I am doing more and more work everyday I go in, and I have cut down to 3 days a week.I am really fit for 63, but find as there are less and less staff, I am out on to work on the self service tills, sometimes I am on there for over 4 hours on my own doing more and more jobs.Also I am always being sent to work in the kiosk that sells cigarettes and the lottery, there is a women in charge who insists on some I is working in there although she knows we are not confident in there or happy.There are no lights or bells to call for assistance as it is so badly run, so if we need help we have to just shout out.I have done a lot of different jobs in the past and I am looking for another job for the new year, as I dread going to this job, and I think about it on my days off.Any advice or comments , I would be very grateful