If I Had My Time Again..,.,

What luck it was found Whiff

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Until December I always wore my wedding ring . My husband died in 2004 aged 47. We had been married 22 years. Since 2017 I lost 7st which meant my wedding was loose so used a spiral plastic ring tightener. As I didn't want it resized but left as my husband put it on my finger. It's d shaped 22ct. I forgot to put the tightener on in December and went shopping then to my usual café. When I got home and took my gloves off no ring. I screamed and burst into tears..I rang my daughter and frightened her she thought I was seriously or had a bad accident. Rightly so she told me off for giving her a scare. I phoned the cafe luckily they found it on the floor and knew it was mine. I went straight away to get it. I wear it on a sliver snake linked chain . My daughter had been telling me to put it on a chain for a year as it had fallen off at home.

I hate not wearing it but I can't lose it again . But I.will always be a Mrs and am still married even 20 years since he died.

I have arthritic hands, so my narrow wedding ring is hinged for ease of removal, should it be necessary. The ring can be opened using a pen like gadget, or even a ball point pen.

Love my wedding ring. 22carat and I can’t get it off even if I wanted to. The twice I have been in hospital it was covered with Elastoplast. It was bought in 1965 and is not terribly wide. My engagement ring belonged to DH’s grandmother. A garnet flower, and I absolutely loved it. Sadly many years ago it got lost, and since then I have been looking for something similar, but so far no luck.

Primrose53

We had hardly any money when we got married. My engagement ring was about the cheapest in Ratners with a diamond so small you needed a magnifying glass!

My wedding ring was equally cheap. Gold band with engraved pattern similar to engagement ring. I stopped wearing the engagement ring years ago as it got very thin. The wedding ring was going the same way so my husband bought me a Russian wedding ring. Three rings in one in white gold, rose gold and yellow gold. 47 years married but not overly sentimental about either.

We were the same. No money so had cheap engagement ring and wedding rings from Ratners. Forty years later DH gave me an eternity ring which I love. We cashed in the wide wedding rings and I now have a thinner one. DH doesn't like wearing rings so we didn't replace his.

I sold my wedding ring when times were very very tough!

My ring dating from the 70’s is slim compared to the wide bands at the time. I have small hands and fingers so the wide band wouldn’t suit me. Like others, my engagement ring wasn’t expensive but I’ve had it remodelled and I’m happy with it. The same stones but a few extra were added.

If I had my time over again I would have remained in Italy where I went to live, newly divorced and with my 5 year old son, in 1982. At that time Italy was a good place to be (or at least it was for us).

A wonderfully healthy diet, lots of sunshine, trips to the beach and both my son and I became fluent in the language. My son absolutely loved the local school and had so many friends.

I came back for various reasons that seemed important at the time and, of course, life has a habit of bogging you down and there never came a "right time" to return.

We went back for holidays over many years but by then I had a mortgage, son in English school etc etc etc.

The what ifs of life.

Anniebach

Have had mine for 58 years, my husband died after 8 years so mine saddens me

Oh Anniebach. I'm so sorry. Sending you love.

Thats interesting Greenfinch. I f I had my time again, I'd have had my children when I was younger and been a bit more savvy generally.

If I had my time again I would move from the over populated SE to an island possibly in the Outer Hebrides where my family originally came from.

Kate1949

Exactly? She married and they divorced. Me and my chipping stayed married!

Haha, exactly the same!

I had to take my wedding ring off after 44 years of marriage all of a sudden it became really tight I hadn’t put on weight so no idea why. I’ve replaced it with a much narrower band, it’s slightly big now so hope it doesn’t happen again.

Arthritis has meant that my 1962 wide gold wedding ring had to be cut off on two occasions and after the second we bought a replacement because adding to the original again seemed a bit pointless. . It sits in my jewellery box and maybe one day it can be made into a ring for DGD1. It has our initials and the date of the wedding engraved on the inside and I couldn’t bear the thought of them being erased, but if it is remade for someone else that won’t matter.

I have lots of lovely rings (bought for various birthdays, anniversaries etc.) so I wear them in rotation. They were all bought by my husband so I don't feel I need to wear my wedding ring all the time.

diamonds are a girl's best friend, maybe.
esp if she hasn't got anything else.

Exactly? She married and they divorced. Me and my chipping stayed married!

Kate1949

My engagement ring was the same Primrose. When I proudly showed it of at work, a girl said 'That's not a diamond, it's a chipping' . She had a very large diamond on her ring.

What a horrible thing to say! I had someone had work say something similar about my ring too. I didn't care - it was the meaning in the ring which was precious to me, not the monetary value.

My engagement ring was the same Primrose. When I proudly showed it of at work, a girl said 'That's not a diamond, it's a chipping' . She had a very large diamond on her ring.

We bought mine in 1968 so it is a thick band. I wouldn't change it for the world. It is 9ct gold and was £11. We got a free set of teaspoons from the jewellers shop with our purchase!

I’m just a magpie!
Anything shiny and I’m sold!
DH wasn’t bothered.

We had hardly any money when we got married. My engagement ring was about the cheapest in Ratners with a diamond so small you needed a magnifying glass!

My wedding ring was equally cheap. Gold band with engraved pattern similar to engagement ring. I stopped wearing the engagement ring years ago as it got very thin. The wedding ring was going the same way so my husband bought me a Russian wedding ring. Three rings in one in white gold, rose gold and yellow gold. 47 years married but not overly sentimental about either.

I reluctantly changed my wide wedding ring for a narrower band in exactly the same style due to arthritic fingers and it is a much better fit. It is an exact replica and no one can tell the difference. I still have and wear my engagement ring which has been made larger. It is very delicate and it suits my small hands, I absolutely love it. Mr J and I chose both rings together and He is fine with my new smaller wedding band.

Have had mine for 58 years, my husband died after 8 years so mine saddens me

I have never taken my wedding ring off. I only wear my engagement ring if going somewhere special.