So many lovely Dorset and Somerset villages, but which one?

We have a favorite pub at Uploders BigBertha it’s a beautiful area, as long as you can drive.

Lovely Lyme Regis

My brother lives in Loders which has retained its peace and quiet but is near enough to West Bay to enjoy the Jurassic Coast. It has a pub but no shop. They enjoy it but lead a quiet life from choice. If it were me I would choose a market town (that still has a market) for all the amenities you will need esp GP surgery.

Compton is a beautiful place to retire to

There is also an amazing care home at Pound bury. A dear friend of mine moved into it some years ago.
As mentioned up thread, you may find your neighbours there. This happened to my friend. His next door neighbours moved to a house in Poundbury. My friend discovered that he could wave to his former neighbours, from his bedroom window, as they were in their kitchen.

A very good friend, a couple of years younger than you RosieDay, moved to a small village after living in a town all her life. This village has one (expensive) shop, no doctor or pharmacist and a quaint bus service. I bit my tongue as the village seemed so inappropriate for her potential needs.
Apologies if this sounds negative. I'll get off my soapbox now.

Good morning
I just wanted to say a huge thank you to everyone for taking the time to respond. Your comments and thoughtful suggestions are truly appreciated!

So maybe, Rosieday you might consider having a look there if you have time.

Yes, it has a good community feel and I like the way housing and business premises, private and social housing are integrated, all with imaginative and varied architecture. I don’t live there but visit often.

I was hostile to it Delila and then it grew on me. It was fantastic for my mother-in-law as a single woman - and as upu say, neighbours from her rural hamlet moved there. Her life expanded and although it was great for an older person it was a very "mixed" community with young families and teens etc - and it was nice ghat the social housing was well mixed in.

The route from tiny village with no bus service to Poundbury is a well trodden path. I think a lot of the people who move there find themselves among their old neighbours. I like Poundbury & think it’s a fascinating place with a lot to commend it - still being developed.

BTW, Dorchester has a hospital, fantastic library and great shops.
The bus links into Poundbury were going electric last time I looked.

My mother-in-law lived in a lovely village in Dorset with just a pub and shop as you described.

The bus service was rubbish, arts 40 mins away and taxis very very expensive.

When her husband died she decided to "future proof" by moving to somewhere wgerd she didnt always have to use the car. She wanted somewhere with good busses and easier for taxis.

She looked at lots of villages (and nearly went to the outskirts of Sherborne) but eventually went to the "oldest" part of Poundbury (which is virtually attached to Dorchester).

At the time we made lots of jokes about "toytown and model villages" and of course Poundbury has subsequently spread exponentially however it did turn out to be a surprisingly great place for her to live. The "old" part still has very much a village feel to it and there is still space to enjoy the countryside whilst having easy access to culture, transport (including trains).

Just a short step away in the newer area, Poundbury has it's own small Waitrose and hotel, another pub and even cafés, a hairdresser and restaurants- and a few independent shops too.

It was great for her for many years - well into her 90s. As it turned out she was still driving until 96 or 97 by which time she had moved to be near us (about four years ago).

People can be snippy about Poundbury (I know I was) - but actually the old part was fantastic with lots going on but not in each other's pockets.

Good luck.

Jane43

When I was a child we used to visit my mother’s family in Southampton. One of our favourite trips out was to Highcliffe, I don’t know what it’s like now but we used to love it.

The first holiday DH (my boyfriend) took together was to Highcliffe.

I live in Sherborne, have for over 40 years (my O.H has lived here all his life) but would love to move back to Somerset. Here is very expensive, it might be nice to visit but has expensive housing/council tax etc. Independent shops which are also for the more well off folk. A lot of retirees or second home owners from the S.East.

When I was a child we used to visit my mother’s family in Southampton. One of our favourite trips out was to Highcliffe, I don’t know what it’s like now but we used to love it.

Be careful. Current Local Plans are looking to increase the size of some of these locations by thousand of houses in the next 20 years. The lovely village/town of today may soon be very different.

I moved a few years ago to South Somerset & love so many of the lovely villages & small towns. Delightful shops, pubs & markets - quiet pace of life. Langport, Somerton & Fivehead are my choice.

Just wondering how long it is since you lived in th Uk, the South West is not the inexpensive place it once was but then you may be selling a chateaux so expense may not be a problem. I would throw in Hinton at George in South Somerset, pub and an excellent shop that sells free range chickens and all beautiful Ham stone.

Frome maybe

Ladies, thank you so much! I’m soon visiting the SW and can see I shall be very busy!

I agree, Sherborne is lovely.

I agree - Sherborne. It's delightful and has a railway station on the main line to Waterloo one way and Exeter the other.

Milborne Port also has The Clockspire.

Another vote for Sherborne. I also would recommend Lychett Matravers which is a sizeable rural village but only six miles from Poole. It is built on a hilltop with spectacular views.