1 daughter has a baby as the other daughters has a miscarriage

We all deal with baby loss differently.I kept pregnancies quiet with only my OH and me knowing sometimes it’s really hard to manage other people’s grief on top of your own.If you can be confident you won’t tel then let her attend I found that other people’s babies didn’t upset me in fact I loved having a wee cuddle,even whenIwasstill in hospital,don’t hide your GC from her it might just help her to heal.She won’t be able to avoid every baby in the town so let her come to terms in her own way.My thoughts are with her and having a baby to hold will take away the awful empty feeling that follows a miscarriage

Miscarriage and losing a baby at any time during pregnancy is a bereavement and women deal with it differently depending on their character.Be guided by how your DD wants to handle it.Some women throw themselves back into normal life fast and some don’t.Sounds like you’re doing a good job.

for you and your D Youngran.

IMO it would be better for your D not to go along at the weekend when her aunt and GM don't know about the miscarriage as no doubt there will be some baby talk, and you and your other D will be in an impossible position knowing that this will be upsetting her.

So sorry for the miscarriage. Your poor daughter! Is she ready to socialise with family yet?

My sister had many miscarriages and was very jealous of my healthy no problem pregnancies. I already had older kids but it would have been so much worse if I'd had a baby while she lost hers.
My sister had PCOS too. When she got pregnant and kept the baby she needed injections all through the pregnancy. Has your daughter got support from SANDS?

I think either you have to tell your sister and Mum about the miscarriage or you need to let your daughter choose not to attend. She needs love and support, not to be forced into a fake joyful situation where there is underlying tension because of a secret.