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FindingNemo15 Sun 31-Aug-25 17:33:41

Emmasss. This post is a year old.

Cossy Sat 07-Sept-24 16:18:25

Or other neighbours?

Cossy Sat 07-Sept-24 16:18:13

I would record each time he behaves like this.

You can contact anti social behaviour team at your council for help and advice.

What about his wife??

Farzanah Sat 07-Sept-24 16:14:59

Record dates and times and duration (after 11pm) you have noted the noisy behaviour and put this in writing to the Council, along with what you have done to try and resolve the situation ie spoken to your neighbour.
The Council does have the power to warn the neighbour, or if the problem continues, to issue fines.
If all else fails and the Council continues to take no action you can inform them that you want an Anti-Social Behaviour Review.

Quokka Sat 07-Sept-24 15:26:16

I you do decide to sell up you will have to alert your buyers to any issues you’ve had with neighbours. So think carefully.

And if you decide to go ahead perhaps sell to a family with loud teenagers who might well give him a run for his money noise-wise? Or someone who plays a brass instrument?

NotSpaghetti Sat 07-Sept-24 14:55:14

I definitely think you should go back to your council.
As it's not a police matter they can't really do much to be honest.

keepingquiet Fri 06-Sept-24 09:31:03

They play loud classical music in our local bus station when the kids are around- it seems to work as they all sit around outside!

Milest0ne Thu 05-Sept-24 21:59:21

I read that in a noisy school they tried playing Mozart in-between classes It seemed to quieten things down." Soothed the savage beast " Play at a reasonable sound level when he plays his loud music. Anything legal is worth a try. Tell other neighbours what you are doing .
Maybe you could have a neighbourhood party. Everyone going round to join his party , trample his garden and drink his booze wine

Spencer2009 Thu 05-Sept-24 21:56:54

As the police and council have done ‘bugger all’ I would definitely see a solicitor for legal advice.

Grammaretto Thu 05-Sept-24 20:54:54

Any chance they may move?
I feel for you but lack suggestions apart from those above and to try to soundproof your bedroom.

SunnySusie Thu 05-Sept-24 19:53:48

I do sympathise, neighbour noise is horrible. We havent experienced anything as bad as you but our neighbours have been an absolute menace over the years. I realise you have replaced your windows, but might it be worth investigating noise reducing windows? I know Everest do them and probably other companies too. Much cheaper to replace the windows again than move house. I also bought noise cancelling headphones to wear in the daytime and a Snoozeband to play white noise into my ears at night.

Greciangirl Thu 05-Sept-24 17:04:06

You need to contact the council.
Noise abatement will,be the complaint.

I have just done this successfully with a neighbour, but with me it was constant bonfires and choking smoke.

petra Thu 05-Sept-24 15:40:52

If you do decide to move be aware that you have a legal obligation to declare the official complaint you made to the police. Prospective buyers will have access to this information.

PilgrimQuill Thu 05-Sept-24 15:33:54

We had horrendous neighbours on both sides in our beautiful retirement bungalow - never had problems with neighbours before these two. No luck with council. Have now moved to a lovely village with nice people on all sides - get invited to things and join in with things and have people round at ours. Best thing we ever did.

grandtanteJE65 Thu 05-Sept-24 15:11:25

Whatever you do: don't move! You don't really want to, and you might just be jumping from the frying-pan into the fire!

Find someone who can tell you exactly what you legally can do about this nuisance, if anything,

If there is no way you can force your neighbour not to disturb you after 11 pm you will have to consider either sound-proofing your bedroom, or sleeping at the other end of the house.

keepingquiet Wed 04-Sept-24 13:59:12

I seem to think it is an 11pm cut-off for noise that makes a public nuisance. I suggest as above, getting in touch with your local council again.

I also suggest finding out what your other neighbours think, as it won't just be you they are disturbing.

You could also inform the police if it after 11pm. Maybe they would only need one visit.

I do feel for you, my neighbours were also like yours during lockdown though now they go away a lot so it isn't so bad now.

You should not have to move. Your new neighbours might be even worse!

Hope you take note of some good suggestions here and you soon get some peace.

Babs03 Wed 04-Sept-24 13:33:43

Keep a diary of when they do this and ask the council for a recording device, also log any reports to the police and if there are any other neighbours affected by it ask them to do the same.
This is anti social behaviour and if you get enough evidence your neighbour will have to answer charges.
Horrible to deal with I imagine.

Cressida Wed 04-Sept-24 12:27:31

Maybe put a baby monitor type camera on your bedroom windowsill pointing towards his shed. They don't always work too well through glass at night but should be good enough to capture flashing lights and sound on an SD card.

pascal30 Wed 04-Sept-24 12:04:30

Have you tried black out blinds in your bedroom? If your complaints and the police have had no effect I would seriously consider moving.. though neighbour issues may make that difficult as you have to declare them..

Maybe take him a set of headphones.. he doesn't need to have the music loud..

NotSpaghetti Wed 04-Sept-24 08:57:41

If the council have been out several times, why didn't they leave you with a recording device?
You would put that in the bedroom affected and record the noise.

We have done this successfully.

stevien Wed 04-Sept-24 08:15:06

we live next to a couple same age as ourselves (early 60's), since we bought house 8 years ago we have had to cope with him playing music late at night until early hours . Thankfully its not every night or even every weekend. But even so its extremely annoying, especially as my we have to be up for work at 6am on weekdays and tend to wake the same time at weekends.
During covid he built a fancy shed in the garden complete with flashing lights and this became an outdoor disco for himself and his friends, although thankfully he no longer has friends round. Just plays music loudly and has lights flashing and I have to move into another bedroom when this happens,
We've tried speaking to him but he is usually extremely drunk and aggressive in the evenings, a bit more understanding the next day ( but soon forgets all promises to keep the volume down), we've had the police out countless times to be told its not really a police matter, council have been involved but again nothing actually stops the problem.
In the last 3 years we have spent a lot of money on our house ( new kitchen, windows, re-decorated etc) thinking we would do all we could before we retire so dont really wont to move but feel very frustrated at the moment
any suggestions????